Help on how to speak to girls?

This is a embarassing question I am 15 turning 16 and have a muscalar body and girls keep looking and saying hi to me but i dont know how to communicate with them i just say hi and keep going so they think im not intrested or in another scenario im at park or beach whatever and i will be attracted to a girl and ill stand there like a idiot unable to say hi or if i do unable to start a conversation so i will just walk away giving the weird kid impression on another note when im introduced to a girl by a friend and im able to talk very well then very quickly be able to speak with them alone and give them a good impression girls say im kind,sensitive and actually listen and i want to display these traits but it is hard to when your this shy. im very good with computers meeting and chatting with girls but it's not the same. i find im shy with ethier male or female friends and would like to get over it. It is probally why i have a very limited amount of friends please helpHelp on how to speak to girls?
I had the same problem and I swear this works. You just act like a total crazy person and not care about what she thinks. Like seriously go above and beyond what you think would be a normal interaction. This works because since you are shy you are below the line of normal interaction. So, when you get out there like that..... it makes you seem normal.Help on how to speak to girls?
ok! if girls talked to u ,u should talk with them too like:

G:hi

B:hi,how r u?

G:fine nd u?

B:cool,me too

B:so whts ur name?

G:(any name)

B:wow nice name

and keep tlking tell they say (ok,bye seya tomorrow)

and about friends , now no guy is good

so ,bad boy need a bad boy

and good boy need a good boy

so try to make relationship with some one just like u

and best wishes guy! ;)
open your mouth

make noise come out

speak the same language as them





perhaps a letter to them

and put it in a bottle

throw it in the ocean

and then when someone finds it

in about 30 years

you'll know how to talk to girls.
If you think a girl's cute just ask her what she likes and what grade she's in, and maybe if she is urghhh, then just ignore her and walk away.
I think just start a conversation going. Just say hi and then say how are you and what do you like to do and soon enough, the conversation will roll faster than a train. :)
Haha puff
lol i love what banana said. she got my vote for best answer if a vote takes place.
There's no easy solution when it comes to overcoming shyness. The only way you can really manage it is to just throw yourself out there. Put caution to the wind and just start talking. A lot of times, I used to find myself being very shy and would sort of alienate myself from others. The way I got over it was to just open up to people. Be honest and just try to take small steps. Talking to a partner in class or something, just making small talk, can help a lot. If you can make them laugh or get them interested, ask for their AIM screenname or myspace. If they give you one, start talking to them more. Small talk can go a long way, and you often find yourself talking a lot more. Once you feel comfortable with them, ask for a phone number, or to hang out. It might be a little awkward at first, but just remember: they're interested. They're taking a risk. Make it worth their while!
Just go where you have the most fun. Try not to be shy, people are far less impressive than you think they are. So don't take yourself too seriously and be afraid to talk to people. You only have a limited time to live. You gonna waste it on being shy?



I was really shy once myself, at around your age too. Never could talk to girls. Then I realized that they want friends as much as you do, so there's nothing to be afraid about.



And if you try to be out going an embarrass yourself, so what? We've all been there. It's nothing new. The people who laugh have been in the same situations.



They all just plain old people. Nothing to be shy about around them.



Just go where you have the most fun.
Okay, I think I can help. I am shy too, but am forced to be social because I deal with a lot of different people in my job with many different personalities, ages, etc. Anyway, I have to maintain a confident exterior regardless of what is going on on the inside. Anyway, I've been doing this for years and it helps soooo much. Have ten or so 'stock' conversation starters. They just need to be simple, like ';Hey, what's up?'; or ';You're really GOOD at that!'; The main thing to remember is to try to only talk about things that involve them. Don't talk about yourself unless asked and when answering, don't be secretive, but keep your answers simple. People really only want to talk about themselves. Once you get the ball rolling, it just gets easier. Force yourself to start conversations. It's easier on the person who actually starts off first. You'll start to realize it's not as scary as you thought. The stock conversation starters have always helped me.