How to cope with the pressure when talking to females?

I m a 19 yr old guy, i m very shy to talk or chat with girls. I don't know what should i say to them. Any way to deal with it? What are the topics that i can chat with tehm. thnx...How to cope with the pressure when talking to females?
Be yourself, and, take a really deep breath when talking to girls. If you ran out of words, look for a certain thing that you and her have in common, but do no, NEVER, talk about things that will make them think you are weird and/or gay.How to cope with the pressure when talking to females?
if she is not talking up a storm (which girls usually do!!) then it shouldn't be hard for you to have a conversation.



but if she is shy like you - then it's a bit more difficult - just know that she is as nervous as you are - so ignore your old self and just talk to her in a soothing way to help her relax.



example:

tell her your nervous (it's a good ice breaker)



talk about funny stuff - like a stupid thing you did that day (falling down or hitting your head - stuff like that, but NOTHING GROSS!!)



ask her what her schedule is during the day(that takes a while)



ask her general information about her family members



telling funny stories about your family members
erm just start off small conversations and see females as friends because if you like a girl and you act like a wierdo infront of the because you like them then your going to have prblems but if you just see them as friends then you'll find it much easier to talk
hey dude, here's a great tip... girls like to laugh, so find a topic that is funny that a girl can relate, but don't make sexual or offensive jokez to a girl coz they don't like that at all.... and another thing, you need to look presentable and not to the extend of looking too sharp..and spary some cologne to boost your confidence...



good luck...



cheers!

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