Sunday, November 21, 2010

I always end up having nothing to talk about during my first chat conversation with girls ..any ideas ?

I usually start as follows :

me : hi

she : hi

me : what's your name then where are you from then how old are ..



after this I end up having nothing to say, can you give me some good things to say during my first conversation ?I always end up having nothing to talk about during my first chat conversation with girls ..any ideas ?
A good starter is usually to talk about your scenery/ what you are both doing at the time. If you are at a party ';having a good time? hurr';, at the park ';come here often';. Can be difficult but it is generally the best start, find common ground such as people you both know, school you go to, what is her job, where do you live etc etc.I always end up having nothing to talk about during my first chat conversation with girls ..any ideas ?
talk about your friends, but not by name. Make it up, it doesn't matter. But, women generally like guys that have a lot of friends.



Music, sports, classes, siblings. Ask questions.

Girls pls answer this problem?

Hey frds i wanna ask something?



hello frds i m shy guy of 20 year old

usually i hesitate to chat with girls especially in my class

today was my exam and i completed my paper before time and sit in the garden waiting for my friend.

suddenly a girl of my class sit in front of me asking about my exams and all those things.

I also answer her very happily as first time i chated with her as she is very cute and many guys of college like her.

after 5 min my friend came and i started to go from there

but she tell me to sit for sometime and ask about me

i saw that she chated with me with great interest in me.

After sometime her friend also came and ask her to go to home

she go from there by saying bye to me but with not a good mood i thought that she wanna talk with me more.

What should i do

how i speak to her

i m a guy of 20 years age

5';7 avg built but with a fair face and cute smileGirls pls answer this problem?
uhmm..first things first..you gotta take that shy attitude of yours!! gosh..you won't get anywhere if you won't face your fear!! that fear is being shy to girls..see..this guy liked me and i liked him back..he knows that i like him but he's just too shy to do a single damn thing about it..what does it make him?? oh yeah..stupid!! if you continue that attitude and you are already 20 years old..you'll get nowhere..now first..remove that shy attitude of yours!!



okay..after getting over that..you have to improve your grammar skills..oh my gosh..a girl is not gonna communicate with you well if she doesn't understand you clearly..oh my gosh!! checkout the things you wrote here..every little sentence has a wrong grammar..i was thinking of pointing them out but no thanks because there are a lot of mistakes..no offense..you just gotta change and improve your grammar skills..you won't be able to communicate with her well if you can't talk and if you can't talk well..you'll ruin your chance of making a relationship with her!!



next..what do you think attracted her?? if you found out what..try to talk about it with her..that's why you have to improve your grammar skills and you have to get over the shy attitude..while talking with her..try to make her laugh or just smile..but first!! think of what you're gonna say..you might be too nervous and you won't be able to mention a single word to her..avoid that..



here..let me give you a tip..if you're thinking of going up to her..go to the mirror and take a look at yourself..try to realize if she's gonna appreciate you or not..dress up and practice..imagine that your reflection in the mirror is the girl..try to talk and communicate with her (who's actually your reflection)..that way..you could practice if you're shy and nervous..that's one way..if i was a guy and i had this problem..i ain't givin' up..



see..if you're desperate about a certain someone..you ain't givin' up for her..you would do anythin' to get her attention..the attention you wanna get..!! so go and make her proud!! you could do it..i know you can..if my advice doesn't work out..complain about it..Girls pls answer this problem?
Sounds like your also interested in her and by the sounds of it she's definitely interested in you. When you see her next time, approach her with a friendly hello and ask how she's doing
If your shy and you want to be more prepared the next time you talk, a good tactic is to ask her alot of questions. Ask her what she likes and doesnt like. It can be simple stuff like her favorite subjects or movies or music. It shows her that you are interested in getting to know her better and that you are also a good listener. You can do it! good luck. :)
Well looks like she's interested in you, just be yourself next time you get to talk to her, maybe invite her out to have a coffee, and see where things go from there...Good luck!
obviously shes interested, or she would have never talked to you in the first place. she showed interest in you, now you must follow up on this. ask her out for coffee, or lunch. you'll be ok. good luck.
you can simply ask for her number so you guys can chat when your friends aren't around..

i know your shy.. just say.. can i have your number so we can chat when we are distracted.. or ask if she wants to study sometimes to break the ice a little then you can ask for her number later..
Ask her out!By the way you may not want to talk to her the way that you wrote this because she might not understand.
well you sound very nice..didnt have to describe yourself..all that matters is..apparently she wnated to talk with you and sounds like know you better...you say your shy but actually jsut walk up to ehr..the next time ya see here and say hello..ask her ow ya doing or somethign like that...you;ll be fine..did you ever stop to think ..maybe shes shy too???you say all the guys want to tlak to her but they dont..maybe she feels nobody wants to talk to her..treat her as you would a friend and just start a conversation..good luck..and a hug for support!!
If she is in your college...find her and ask her if she wants to go out with you or if she likes you.Don't be afraid try to do your best!!!! BEST OF LUCK!!!!
just walk up to her or when you see her say hi
ok obviously your intrested in her.go up to her next time you see her ask for her number %26amp; CALL HER.dont wait at all to call her.it doesnt make girls want you more it just makes us think you lost intrest in us and we start to movie on.ask her out for a drink or coffee.maybe even ask her out.girls someitme will make the first move but since she ask so much about she be intrested also.





basically to only thing to do if you wanna see whats gonna happen is to talk to her.



flirt too
If you are foreign then you have the golden ticket. You are already in my friend. Those american girls love fresh meat. Otherwise you have really bad grammer if you are american and you have no shot.
i think that the direct approach is the best approach....talk to her alone with out anyone around...ask her if she would mind if you too could talk outside of school...get to know her...her likes/dislikes...etc..and then go from there a cute face only goes so far...hopes this helps
the next time you see make an effort to make her feel the same way she made you feel when she started to talk to you...if things go well from there maybe you should ask her out on a date or something, GOOD LUCK
well next time you see her talk to her again. this time at the end of the conversation (like if one of you has to leave like last time) say ';o hey let me give you my number, I'd love to talk to you more.'; and then have her program your number into your phone and see if she calls you. i know it sounds kinda weird but its way better than asking for HER number. this way if she calls you, you'll know she is interested in you.
You're thinking too much into this. Imagine you're a caveman...how will you communicate with a woman that you like her without words?



She got the ball rolling, so keep it rolling!



Talk with her some more next class. Flirt with her. Invite her out for some ice cream or coffee when class gets out sometime.



You know what to do G, bust a move!
you are hot LOL
if she's interested in you then it shouldn't be a problem. Find things that you have in common. Start with school issues and build off that. Girl's aren't as scary as most men think they are. Ask her if she'd like to go for a coffee or something simple to start and let it go from there.
Say hi everytime you see her, then about a week later ask to see her after school for a soda and or dinner as friends and go from there. You may never know what could have been if you don't start the process of it first. Ask about her day, about her hobbies, what she does after school etc.
OK just ask her out for coffee like this ';Hey ... would you like to go to Star Bucks to talk some more?'; and if she say no then say ';OK maybe some other time.'; And if she doesn't like you it's her loss because you sound like a great guy nd any girl would be lucky to have you as a boyfriend.

Is it normal to chat online?

I just signed up for yahoo messenger but have never chatted online before. My friends chat, get on cam, send pics with girls.....I think I want to do that to...but dont know how to get a girl to chat with me.Is it normal to chat online?
why dont you just come right out and ask your friends how they end up having ';chats';. are you on facebook or twitter? thats a good way cause you always get updates about what people are doing, so you just use those as a way of opening up chats with people. of course you have to get people to be your facebook friend first, just ask a few friends and then after that it'll build pretty naturally.Is it normal to chat online?
It's normal! But Yahoo! Chat's full of spams!!
Click on the + sign near the top left of the messenger window then follow the prompts to add someone to your friend's list. They accept you and you in turn accept them When their icon is lit they are online. Double click on it, the chat window opens then send a message, call or invite to web cam
Yea sure its normal..nothing to feel awkward or scared about

If you want to meet new people you can visit forums and chat rooms and there are millions of friend making websites

I'm sure you'll find a friend soon :)
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  • Problems with girls?

    I've a very big problem.My problem is that I cant chat with girls.I feel very shy to talk to them as my friends do.I like a girl in my class,how do I attract her attention to me and make her also love me as I do.Problems with girls?
    ~you ';love'; a girl that you are afraid to talk to?

    you youngeons are terribleProblems with girls?
    don't be shy, whats the worse she could do to you? act like she's your friend
    ask her over to your house to play video games or to the movies. youll barely have to talk and when you do youll have something to talk about. if thats too indimidating pass her a note or get one of her friends to ask her for you. also compliment her a lot. not lots of guys do that so when you do shell find you unique and want to be with you a lot more.....Good luck, hope i helped :D %26lt;3
    as a girl i would just tell you to go for it and talk to her ,once you get use to talking to her you won't be as shy towards her. Don't by shy to talk to girls,just try and it won't seem as bad,then you never know what could happen.
    u cant make sumone love u at the click of ur fingers....my advice if u really are shy but like this girl.....?

    start small. ur not goin to be able dive in to flirt lik crazy if u dont know how!

    practise in the mirror at home or with a sister or brother...

    say hi wen u see her..then wen ur comfortable enuf, talk a lil more..like ask how her day is so far? o and u like that shirt shes wearing or her hair today is really pretty....and say it with a smile!

    she wont push u away ir u compliment her, jus dont leer at her.

    make the oppurtunities!! grab her on her own, make sure u get to talk to her,ask to walk her to her to her bus stop.....! then see wat happens from ther!

    good luck!
    Don't be shy! Girls won't bite you! You should find an interesting theme for speaking firstly...

    HELP! I think my boyfriend is addicted to chat rooms?

    My bf always seems to be online in a chat room or chatting to girls (no guys) that he met in chat rooms. A few months ago I told him that it bothered me because I'd come over to spend time with him and he's sit there online chatting. I've caught him once looking at dirty/very sexual images from the women he was talking to and he tried to minimize it quickly but wasn't fast enough..! I've also tried talking to him about what he was doing while chatting and caught him in a lie and a few days later accidentally found VERY sexual photos of the woman he was chatting with when I was saving a picture on his computer. He stopped chatting and cleared his chat list for a few months and now he's back at it again. I talked to one of the women once and he talks very dirty and sends pictures of him that only I should see...etc! He'll do it while i'm in the room and it's starting to eat at me to the extreme! Before he met me he chatted to meet people and he has met a few girls for sex from online and that worries me! :(



    He is a great guy and I wouldn't change anything about him except this. He tells me he loves me a lot and I like that but it always seems that he's more kissy/cuddly when he's chatting like he's doing something he shouldn't be doing! I need help on how i should go about handling this or how I should bring it up or if I shouldn't have to worry 'cause I'm making this into a bigger issue then it really needs to be...HELP ME PLEASE!HELP! I think my boyfriend is addicted to chat rooms?
    that is total disrespect to you. leave him! and in my opinion yes i consider that a form of cheating. loose him and go find a nice guy that will respect you.HELP! I think my boyfriend is addicted to chat rooms?
    let him go let him go let him go. you have an addict on your hands that you clearly dont want to deal with.

    Girls, would you approach a shy guy in a night club to talk?

    Im a 26 yr old shy guy, whos given up on approaching girls (attractive or not). Would you approach a shy guy whos with friends, but not chatting up girls, to talk to?.

    Guys appearance below average to average depending on how much you have drunk. clean, shaven and dressed sensibily.Girls, would you approach a shy guy in a night club to talk?
    How would I know he's a shy guy.Girls, would you approach a shy guy in a night club to talk?
    i would rather have a guy approch me instead. idc what kind of guy he just have to show me his awesome dance skills before he can talk or dance with me! hahaha. sorry. but shy guys are cool.

    I like girls...what should i do?

    I am pretty certain that i am bisexual. i really would love to be in a relationship with a girl, but how do i find one? I want to be able to chat other girls up, but im scared that im going to come across as pushy, especially if they aren't bi. HELP please!I like girls...what should i do?
    wow iam in the same place as you are! I definitly like girls, but i also like boys. I want to experiment with girls and just see how it feels. And i totally get the ';where do i find one?'; part, because thats also my problem! We can chat if you would like:)



    ALSO how do i email you!! i cant figure it out? can we do yahoo chhat? haha im so confusedI like girls...what should i do?
    I feel the same way! I've been wanting to begin or try a relationship with a girl but can't seem to find someone who i like, who likes me back :/

    Chat friends,he abuses it , i dont.should i give it up also because he says so?

    How do you handle this problem? My boyfriend only has his school friends and male friends in his msn and yahoo. I caught him chatting with girls on a date site. I said stop it, you shouldnt be making any ';new'; girls friends, its not appropriate because i cant trust you.



    Ive got alot of school friends, guys who are totally just friends some going back 10+ years, he tells me its not fair because im allowed to chat with them, why cant he make female friends. I dont think its fair he said that because for a start he is only making girls friends to chat and flirt (in my opinion) and im not. My friends respect me and most have girl friends anyways..what to do, shall i delete everyone even tho it will upset me me because ITS fair?Chat friends,he abuses it , i dont.should i give it up also because he says so?
    Both of you should have friends without the other getting upset. If you don't trust him you need to get it sorted or your relationship is doomed anyway.Chat friends,he abuses it , i dont.should i give it up also because he says so?
    i would be suspicious if i were you
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  • MY husband used to do sex chat in his yahoo msg , since i found about this he has created a new id?

    some days before i found that my husband was chatting with girls about sex in his yahoo id and i found that out , then he convinced me that he will never do it again. he still continued and denied about it , i guess he kinda got a doubt that iam checking on him so now he has created a newid in hotmail and he is using his hotmail msg for chat purposes i guess , can anyone suggest what to do now ? how to find his new password since he wont tell it .MY husband used to do sex chat in his yahoo msg , since i found about this he has created a new id?
    Hon... Your husband sounds like mine. He is only about him. What ever makes him happy he does... Please don't put up with it. You deserve someone to be commited to you. Chatting sexually is in my opinion the same as an affair. You deserve better than that! Contact me if you need someone who knows what its like to talk to! I am in your shoes!MY husband used to do sex chat in his yahoo msg , since i found about this he has created a new id?
    jsut try guessing what it is based on what he keeps his other passwords as. But honestly why do you even care at this point.. why don't you jsut leave?
    I fell ya..the mistakes we make are letting them know we know TOO SOON. Then they get smarter and sneaker. Mine has created a hotmail account also and they are impossible to get into. Plus he can know if you are on hotmail, etc. There are keyloggers that track things, but the only ones that really work cost money. good luck...they have phone reocrders too you cna tap your phone to see if he is telling anyone about this..good luck
    How about kicking his sorry butt to the curb? You know he is doing it and he has lied about doing it.



    Time to cut and run. Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!
    try saying you lost your password for the screen name- email address and you know his birthday, zip code and all of that information. If he entered it truthfully and honestly you should have no problem getting a new password for his account.



    You shouldn't stay with someone like that. Why put yourself thru this?
    Your so called husband is a jerk. He's married to you so what is he doing chatting on line about sex. If I were you, I would pack his things and put them out on the front lawn. Next I would order him to get out! A husband like this doesn't deserve you! You can't trust him, and when you love someone, you don't act this way. Please make your move! Cocoa
    Yes, openly tell him, '; If you can't beat them, jion them!';

    Tell your husband you know he is doing this even though he told you he would never do this again. So you are going to start talking sexy to men over the internet, If he gets mad and tells you not to.... then remind him of what he is doing, and let him know it is a two way street and he can't have a double standard!! If he doesn't stop then go on line with him watching and start talking!!
    well to find new paswords are hard to find out. two if it just chating let it be, and if he does want to listen the start chating on line and make him feel lie you do, an d maybe he might stop. it hard to related to what you husband is doing. but just think it chating not sex in front of the house. so keep a open mind about it.
    I cannot see why you need to check his new password and in fact, you should not be worry since he will at home doing the chat rather than he find the thrill outside without your knowing.

    This new found thrill will ease off in due course. It could be your husband is very bored or there is hardly no communication at home.

    Since no communication, a guy will find some cheap thrill to kill time. Remember this, it's only a cheap thrill. If you don't find him at home, than you start to worry. Till than, work out some communication at home
    He is evidently addicted to cybersex. It's probably harmless and safe.
    There is pc tracking software that you can pick up at your local office supply dealership. This software will record every key stroke that is used on the PC. It will record passwords and conversations. If you know that he is doing this my question to you is 1. What are you going to do if he is talking sex ? 2. He will not stop once he is hooked.



    You will need to disconnect the pc each night so that he cant get online and you may need to get some counciling help from a professional.
    get a keylogger program, they are free online. next time he types anything you will know.
    do you wish he was picking up girl on the street or talking on line? come he won't catch anything online but writter cramp.

    Chat rooms with girls?

    hi everyone,

    Many of my friends got girl friends from the net, and when i ask them where did they get their ids, they tell me from chatting online and yahoo answers.

    how is this, yahoo bans any try to attract girls to ur account by telling them to add u in ur question.

    they also say they ask them for SEX chat , is this possible????

    how is this

    add me if u like, lucky_gemmy@yahoo.comChat rooms with girls?
    hi any girl

    What is the most polite way to stop carpooling with someone?

    My best friend and I have been carpooling for 3 years and 6 months ago (when gas prices were ridiculous) we were approached by another guy who works in our department. We both feel we have given it a 'fair shot' but he is really annoying and we really miss our 'girl chats'. How can we tactfully get out of carpooling with him?What is the most polite way to stop carpooling with someone?
    Just tell him he will need to make other arrangements and say no more than that; you do not owe him any explanations and he has no choice but to accept the situation.What is the most polite way to stop carpooling with someone?
    Exactly as you stated. You miss your girl chats and no longer wish to carpool with him. This way you are not saying anything offensive
    Well, you could always just start making the ride unbearable for him. Drive crazy, smoke in the car, wear buttloads of perfume, fart, start making plans after work where he either needs to hangout with you or find a different ride.
    Just tell him that you and your friend have had to make alternative arrangements because all three of you guys call pooling isn't working out anymore, if he presses for an answere just say its personal and you guys would rather not talk about it.
    Been in that situation before, and believe me, it doesn't turn out as badly you might think. I just told the guy the truth, that I didn't want to carpool with him anymore because I didn't feel safe (he was always stoned.) He acted surprised, but there was no real harm done. Two weeks later he got fired, so I guess I jumped the gun a bit.

    How to chat with finnish girls?

    hey can u giv me idea how to chat with finnish girls and talking on what topic will make us close.....plz i need ur help.How to chat with finnish girls?
    There's no general answer. It depends on who you are talking with. Here are couple of suggestions:



    * Studies / work

    * Pets

    * Hobbies

    * Family

    * TV

    * Movies

    * Music

    * Food

    * Sports

    * Cultural differences



    Basically, you can discuss almost anything. I don't think there are any special taboos. Most Finns speak English well, but you could still learn couple of Finnish phrases. It may help to break the ice when you start a conversation. Take a look at these sites:

    http://www.yle.fi/opinportti/supisuomea/

    http://donnerwetter.kielikeskus.helsinki



    Nobody expects you to speak Finnish, but it makes a good impression if you even try to say something in Finnish.



    Here's a nice article that is worth reading:

    http://virtual.finland.fi/netcomm/news/sHow to chat with finnish girls?
    Ask them about their culture. What they do in their every day life. How much for a mail order bride. Stuff like that.
    Use the same topics you use with girls from your own country. Finnish girls are no different. Get unlimited text messaging, they prefer to text more than talk.

    I accidentally got logged into this girls AIM chat?

    she used to be good friends with me and we hung out a lot. she logged into her AIM at my house and i havent used the computer she logged onto for a long time. i accidentally got logged in because u no how AIM automatically 'remembers u' and logs u in as soon as u turn the computer on. i didnt do anything in her account i signed out after like 1 second after realizing it was hers. so since i didnt leave a mark or do anything to her account, could she find out or realize it was me who logged in,if i dont tell her?I accidentally got logged into this girls AIM chat?
    nope. the only way she can know is if she gets on at the same time as you and it says she is also logged in somewhere else. even then, she won't know its you,
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  • How to chat up a girl that has never met me before?

    Theres this girl that I fancy who goes to a girls school near me. i met her through facebook and a few of my friends know her. The problem is that she doesnt know i even exist. I dont know how to talk to her on facebook without sounding like some creepy and weird guy who shes never met before. I am wondering if any of you have any tips on starting a conversation with her or talking to her without sounding weird. Thanks and only constructive comments please.How to chat up a girl that has never met me before?
    Say casual stuff like how is school.. ext..How to chat up a girl that has never met me before?
    meet her in person, hangout with her one dayy with your friends? it will be alot easier and since your friends know her they can help you out too , good luck :)
    i'm 29 and i still dont know.

    (lol)

    How do i find or search about yahoo id of girls by age and location?

    sometimes i want to search yahoo id of females eg . i want to chat with girl from usa or middle east but i cant find the yahoo id of gurls how do i search this by age and location ?? plz help

    eg : find male or female form usa age between (18-22) !!!!!!! plz help meHow do i find or search about yahoo id of girls by age and location?
    you sound like a predator. i don't think i'll tell you howHow do i find or search about yahoo id of girls by age and location?
    i don't think you can. it sounds like you're a creep. try going on yahoo! personals!!
    haha, CREEP!
    call your local police dept. for helpful tips on finding underage girls

    Please someone advise me on how to get a girlfriend?

    I am really struggling and for long i have been trying but i am still failing, at first i thought it was because i don't get the courage to talk to girls, but i now don't even have an opening to chat with girls.If anyone can advise me personally about this i will really appreciate it, you can give me your email, and i will email you, boys or girls.Please someone advise me on how to get a girlfriend?
    dont wait for it to come... remember that love comes when you least expected it... if u want a girlfriend, just be yourself...you do not need to impress a girl..instead, express what you have to...Please someone advise me on how to get a girlfriend?
    try be more outgoing enjoy life be chill the will come to you
    MAN THE HARPOONS! WHALE AT SIGHT!
    let the girl(s) know who you really are, and find out what type of girls like guys like that, don't be a jerk, and if they had an x then that is a great way of finding out what type of guy she likes, u less it all changed cuz of him, so if he is a jerk then don't do that for him. And just about the most important thing you need to remember is she want you to ask her out, not vise versa, so if you really need ask all the girls and see which one like you, only way to really find out.

    How do I confront my husband about sexually chatting with girls online?

    I recently found out that my husband has 2 myspace accounts. One that I knew about and the a 2nd one that he using to chat to girls sexually over the internet. I don't believe that he is physically cheating but to me this is cheating as well. I want to confront him about it but I'm not sure how to do and not put him on the defense. I don't want to nag to him, but I want him to understand that I do not approve of this. And obviously he knows this because he went through all of the trouble to see up a second account.How do I confront my husband about sexually chatting with girls online?
    I would just go straight in for the kill. Cheating is cheating in my book. I wouldn't really be worried about his feelings, he wasn't worried about yours.How do I confront my husband about sexually chatting with girls online?
    In a straight forward manner. There is no other way. Why beat around the bush?
    Well, he already knows you don't approve of this because he created the 2nd account with the intent that you not find out about it. ..but you did!





    Best you can do is let him know you found out about the 2nd account and then let him explain himself. He may come back with ';It's not like I'm cheating'; so you need to be prepared to tell him how you feel it IS cheating.
    ';What the hell do you think you're doing'; comes to mind.
    ooo helll noooo, girl hes cheatin on u mentally, tell him exactly wat hes doin, just tell him
    Flirt anonymously online with him and guide him into temptation.
    Easy, disconnect the internet. Then tell him why you did.
    yeah he's cheating on your emotionally.





    if you can get away with it crack into his account and write emails pretending to be him.
    Telling him you don't approve won't do a thing. He knows you don't approve or he wouldn't do it behind your back. Maybe you need to do something to make him interested in you again because he's obviously losing interest. Either that or leave him because there could be many reasons it's happening but the definite is that it likely won't stop, at least not for long. That's why I'll never get married so if my girlfriend lets herself go or starts chatting with guys on the internet I can walk, walk, walk away without a worry.
    Tell him that you have met a Guy on line and don't see anything wrong with chatting...


    When he raises hell about it then, bring up his second account.
    Send him a message via his ';secret account'; telling him to stop chatting because your a married man.
    nothing to be defensive about. he did it. the only way for you to make a decision as to your, and his future, is to confront him, tell him what you know, and then decide if his explanation, apology, etc., are what you want.
    Set up an account on myspace fake name and pic then start chatting with him and let it go on foe a couple of weeks then see if he wants to meet and suprise the hell out of him!!!!!!!!!!!
    i would just talk to him straight up and tell him how i feel, obviously he can't lie about it cause u got proof already.





    I agree with u on the cheating part as well. cheating is not always physical, its sometimes emotionally which will eventually lead to physical cheating. Find out what intrigues him about the chicks online and fix it, he is ur husband.
    well first you start dear we need to talk about something I found do not accuse him say I feel_____ then well I can't blame you for screaming when I found out that my husband did almost the exact same thing I did that then started screaming he tried to consistently apologize and I told him to get the F*ck off me we did work it out and things are better now after the screaming stops try talking to him and ask him why mine denied it even though I had proof right in front of him on paper. please don't let this ruin your marriage its a hump that you guys have to get over feel free to email me if you need to talk or have any questions this just happend 2 weeks ago to me
    Be straight forward. He will probably get defensive, and get mad at you for looking for his myspace blah blah blah...i have been through that. I found something in my husbands safe that he was hiding from me, and he got mad at me for looking in the safe!! why do we have to think about them getting mad at us when they are doing something wrong?!? It is definately a problem that he is having these types of chats with other women!! When he tells you that it isn't cheating, and not a big deal, ask him why he didn't just talk to the girls from his regular myspace. he knew that he was doing something wrong, and you should just tell him that you know, ask him why, and put a stop to it. that is not nagging, not one little bit. you have every right to confront him and make him explain himself.
    um, well hes stupid for talking sexually to girls on myspace. do you know how many people loose there jobs for doing stupid stuff on myspace? alot!!! let him know hes putting both your financial futurers at risk by being a a lying cheating moron. and if hes cheating on you by purposly going out to find other girls to have sex with via myspace. he dosent love you. dump his *** before he dumps you.
    ya thats not cool ,well, maybe something can happen to the comp,,it can falldown,,,after a while thet get costly,,,ya know what i mean
    What I would do in your situation is approach him with a concerned attitude. You know be like ';Look...I know about the myspace account, I'm not overly pissed off about it but I am hurt. I just don't understand...is there something these woman are giving you that I'm not?'; Or something along those lines. I have no idea about your sex life but perhaps maybe he's feeling like he wants to explore something new? It may not be that he isn't getting any satisfaction from you, it MAY be that he's too scared to suggest something different. I did the same thing and I enjoyed ';talking dirty'; online with other men, my partner wasn't hurt about it (I admitted it to him) and so we both started emailing each other raunchy emails. It's exciting and new and I regret not telling him sooner XD He could be in the same predicament. Tell him that you don't approve of him cybering with other woman...but you're willing to give it a shot ;) If you haven't considered, then you should, it's heaps of fun.





    Just know, that you have EVERY right to know what's going on. You shouldn't back down even if he goes on the defensive. Don't get on his case about it and nag him, but you need to make it clear to him that you have every right. Don't back down!





    Marriage is a partnership and you're both EQUALS, keep that in mind and good luck =)
    this is a form of cheating so who cares if you are nagging him or not, he's cheating. you straight out confront him about it and see what he has to say about it.
    I dont kno whay it's so hard to confront him? He's your husband, just come right out and say it...
    You need to approach him and be honest on your findings and tell him this is unacceptable to you! He may not be physically cheating but why should a man put himself into temptation to do so? Cheating starts in the mind before it is ever acted upon so I would tell him NO and that you mean HELL NO. He knows he is doing wrong and that is why he is keeping the information of the 2nd MY SPACE from you and this is the same as lying. You could ask him to stop if you think that he will or will this make him only hide it better the next time?? If you really want to check out his character you could go into the second MY SPACE and set yourself up as a woman coming on to him and see how far he would go but............in the mean time bring up something about someone going through infidelity on a television show or something and how you hope nothing like that would never happened to the both of you? Do not bring up cheating through a my space site just use it pertaining to a neighbor or a wife's best friend ect ect....... Then put the bait out there to him and see if he takes it. I had a friend do this and her husband set up a date for them to meet and my girlfriend walked in the restaurant and sat across from him at his table and he about went through the floor. This may be your only chance to catch him and see what he is really up to and if he is really looking for someone that he could cheat on you in the marriage. Trust is very important these days with all the STD'S out there sweetie.
    I say confront him and if he doesn't like it then oh well. I would also make him get rid of the account and if he does not want to then its time to pack the bags. GOOD LUCK!
    Why are you pussy footing around, confront him, tell him it's inappropriate, hurts your feelings and you want it to stop immediately?

    How do you know if girls you chat with online like you?

    Since I can't read body language from just instant messaging, what are some ways to tell if the person on the other side likes you? I thought after talking to this girl for awhile she liked me by using smiley faces and winks and stuff in her messages. I thought we were just flirting with each other. Then I drive 2 hours to see her and she doesn't want anything to do with me...How do you know if girls you chat with online like you?
    thats why you should talk about it before meetingHow do you know if girls you chat with online like you?
    idk really i would honestly say shes just a flirt.
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  • How can I be better at talking to girls?

    I recently started college, but my problem is that I'm really not good at talking to girls! I really don't know why-- it's like every time I have to chat with a girl, my voice becomes really low and I feel really nervous! I wish I was more able to talk to girls because I don't even have any female friends at all except for one or two who are just on a ';hi, bye'; basis. How can I overcome this inhibition? Please help.How can I be better at talking to girls?
    First, RRELAX, and second, REALXHow can I be better at talking to girls?
    I actually just confronted this issue of mine recently. I Started college about a year ago. I talked to a couple of friends about it and they told me to just talk to this girl I think is really pretty. I was so incredibly nervous, yet excited, on the day I saw her. I just went up to her outside of class and introduced myself, then asked her something about the class. We had a short conversation, and then she had to leave and get ready for the rest of the day. (My mouth was getting pretty dry during the conversation, since I was really nervous, but I have been told many times that confidence is key, but I had never done anything like that, so I couldn't really find the confidence). The whole thing didn't go as I wanted, since I didn't get a date right then and there, but that is asking quite a bit from the situation.



    What really helped me was the anticipation of the whole thing. I had been waiting for that moment for a while, and I didn't want to let myself down by chickening out, so I just did it. After it was all done, I was really relieved, and having the experience kind of made me want to try it some more. It's like riding a bike for the first time, you're nervous because you don't want to get hurt, but you're excited to have fun. And after that first ride you just want to go again. I think once you get out there and do it once, your confidence will continue to grow.



    I'm sorry if all of that is jumbled, I keep replaying the whole scene in my head and I get excited haha. I guess to sum it up... just go out there, introduce yourself and start a conversation, then the next time you see them you can say hello, and the friendship can begin, and from there I'd say you can maybe get a date if things go well :)

    How should i begin a chat with a girl on facebook, that i don't know?

    There are quite a few girls that i would really love to chat with on facebook, but every time i i send them a message i never hear from them. Can someone please tell me wat to say, how to introduce myself and have them message me back. Thanks guysHow should i begin a chat with a girl on facebook, that i don't know?
    ask them if they know somebody you know if they do, work from there.

    don't do it too often cause people may get the impression of a stalker. just make friendly converstaion, don't introduce your self, just say what's up with him/her.How should i begin a chat with a girl on facebook, that i don't know?
    Don't use face book, sign up at milf-date.com



    I tried hooking up with chicks on face book,but they think i was a creepy on milf-date.com they're not like that.

    Any videos of guys flirting or chatting with girls?

    Hi all,



    I'm trying to build my confidence up so that I can approach woman and just be flirty, fun and outgoing. Not looking for tips on getting numbers or anything. Just want to be able to hit a bar/club and have the ability and confidence to go up to a girl and have fun.



    I can sometimes ask how a girls going, but unless they invest energy into the conversation (as in be really friendly) I don't consider. Or if they don't give me something to continue the conversation. For example they usually say 'good thanks'.



    So I'd like to see clips or audio of guys having a successful conversation with a random girl. Like I sometimes hang out with this guy who seems to be able to chat up any girl. And yet when its just guys he comes across as shy, doesn't talk as much.



    Hope you can help.Any videos of guys flirting or chatting with girls?
    Here is a link



    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=crAMocJouAny videos of guys flirting or chatting with girls?
    search in

    1)video google

    2)yahoo videos
    Search youtube.com

    How To Chat Up A Girl And Flirt???!!!???

    Im over my last relationship now and im ready to move on. Basically im going into town tommorow and im really confident and my friends that will be going arent, they are pretty shy, and they are holding me back because they wont go up and chat up girls etc. and I dont think they've been with many people. All I am wanting to do is get a couple of mobile numbers and that, and I can take it from there, its just being the flirt, im not sure how and what I should do, and should I just walk upto them and introduce myself or what? A little help would go a long way. Thanks.How To Chat Up A Girl And Flirt???!!!???
    Hello :)

    What i basically reccommend is to go up to girls even if your friends try to hold you back!

    Just be polite and compliment her.The best compliment is on a girls hair in my opinion lol.. just go up to her and ask where she got her haircut. After you start talking to her just ask her about herself. Where she was born, what are her hobbies, etc. Compliment, compliment, compliment. its the best way to flirt! Don't go after all these girls..instead focus on one you seem interested in and you feel things will go far.

    Goodluck on everything :)How To Chat Up A Girl And Flirt???!!!???
    I had the same problem, I fixed it somehow. You need to start building up networks. Ask your player friends to introduce them to girls. Once you know a handful of girls(to start with) they will introduce to their friends and let me tell you, if a girl introduces her girlfriend to a guy then its more likely that she will appreciate you as compared to a guy introducing a girl to his friend. Starting up is the tough part and its all downhill from there. And one more thing, dont feel disheartened if some girl lets you down, there are more fishes in the ocean.

    Chatting up girls???

    Im over my last relationship now and im ready to move on. Basically im going into town tommorow and im really confident and my friends that will be going arent, they are pretty shy, and they are holding me back because they wont go up and chat up girls etc. and I dont think they've been with many people. All I am wanting to do is get a couple of mobile numbers and that, and I can take it from there, its just being the flirt, im not sure how and what I should do, and should I just walk upto them and introduce myself or what? A little help would go a long way. Thanks.Chatting up girls???
    %26gt;Walk up to them and say something about the environment you are in or ask them an innocent question and take it from there.

    %26gt;Keep the conversation light hearted at first

    %26gt;Keep teasing and being playful. IMPORTANT!!!

    %26gt;Be prepared to walk away if you get the feeling that they aren't interested. Though be persistent (you have to make your own judgement on this)

    %26gt;Make sure you show that you have respect for yourself and are generally 'cool' guy who has a life

    %26gt;Don't be desperate, plenty more fish in the sea

    %26gt;Remember that your tone and body language say more than your words, so be conscious of how you are projecting yourself



    etc etcChatting up girls???
    be respectful and compliment them.

    Take interest in what they like ;)

    good luck
    Top tip is chat up one girl per bar - dont get caught chatting to two as you will luck out on both.
    Yes, walk up and introduce yourself, but don't be pushy. If she makes continual eye contact you know she's interested. As the user above me says ';one girl per bar';, else you're gonna look like a sleaze, and most of all... DON'T GET DRUNK! Drinking's fine, but no girl appreciates being chatted up by an incoherent drunk smelling of beer and salt n vinegar crisps... at least, unless she's pretty far gone herself lol! Just be yourself and you'll be fine, and you'll find the right kind of girl too.

    Good luck!
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  • If your bf is flirting with girls on a chat-room, would that be an issue for you?

    as in flirting, calling them on their fones, commenting on their pics about how pretty and sexy they are etc...what do you think about that? the situation is already over i just want to see what people think.If your bf is flirting with girls on a chat-room, would that be an issue for you?
    Of course! There's a possibilty that ur not his only one. If I were a girl, I'd just dump him and move on! Let him go make some other girl pregnant.If your bf is flirting with girls on a chat-room, would that be an issue for you?
    i would be pissed at him!!!! for sure.....
    No because hes bigger and stronger then me and can give me a black eye for meddling
    Beat his assssssking for it !
    get ready to dump him.
    Yes, it would bother me. I would confront him about it if I felt it was getting unreasonable.
    Yes, it would be a major issue. Me and my boyfriend have been down this road before and it did not end well. We almost broke up and it took us months to get our relationship back on track as it hurt me so much. He also almost met up with her and asked her if she would do 'things' with him.

    Hope I helped! [:
    Dump Him!!
    hellllll yes!

    The only girl he should be calling sexy is me!
    i would be sooo ticked x-( lol haha. that would totally suck.
    I would be furious and horribly upset
    yes it would be issue because he shouldnt be flirting with other girls it dont matter if its on a chat room or whatever website he goes on ..that shows me that he still act like a little kid and that shows me that im not entertaining him...but the way i see it he dont want 2 be with me no more but i dont really care tho ..all i could say is that he could go kick rocks and he could go chase his chickin heads

    What to chat with a girl about ? & How to chat with a girl ? ;)?

    hey every one ,

    well I usually use MSN to chat with girls

    but the problem here that I dunno what should I talk about

    or actually how must I act

    sometimes the chat just be an investigation



    there is maybe 100 girl in my MSN list , but most of them did really deleted me because I was boring as hell



    I HATE talking about MAKE-UP , FILMS , SONGS , CLOTHES

    so pls don't ask me to



    I like Technology, Computers, Mobiles, Drawing, Sports.

    It's may be not the suitable things to talk about with a girl



    some ppl say dont use small sentences in the chat, Well I did

    and others say be like Dr.Phill , I liked that but most of girls won't open her heart for u to show her problems .



    So what I supposed to do XD

    I will appreciate any help

    thanxxxWhat to chat with a girl about ? %26amp; How to chat with a girl ? ;)?
    Girls are people, too. (Sounds as if you're a boy.) Pretend they're boys. Just talk, as if you would, to anyone else. It is to be hoped, they'll know well enough, to pretend you're just a person, too, and talk right back accordingly.

    How should we decided about right girl friend on what bases how to flirt with a girl?

    I want to chat with girls open minded girl of age 15-20How should we decided about right girl friend on what bases how to flirt with a girl?
    You too are an idiot. Your question makes absolutely no sense.

    ONLINE CHATTING WITH GIRLS! Please only GIRLS hav a look inside for details?

    Hello girl(s), I hav been chatting online for last 1 year %26amp; still did not find a good girl friend.I m n Indian man, age 20, studying professional chartered accountancy course,don't drink (For GOD';S sake,i do drink water),don't smoke,funny character and like making friends.



    Please suggest me what should i do to find the girl of my nature.Also,how can I maintain friendship like chatting regularly,etc...Also in what manner should i chat with girls so that we can hav a long good friendship.



    PLEASE NOTE:I m not a guy who is interested in sexual talks and share horny tales.

    Mostly girls talk only for sake of talking.Friendship is too far to evolve.Please help me.



    ALSO CAN ANY GIRL answering my question has that kindness to become my friend.If you r looking for a friend like me pls mail me.

    DON'T MAIL ME JUST FOR THE SAKE OF EARNING 10 PTS.!!!

    By the time u read this u would be annoyed and would like to kick me.U can mail me yor harsh comments.

    That's all i can say and ask TRULY.ONLINE CHATTING WITH GIRLS! Please only GIRLS hav a look inside for details?
    hi am a 19 year colourd working young lady also looking for friendship if you interested but AM a smoker and a occasional drinker but Am sophisticated and intelligent as well i like people who are honest and fun to be with so respond if interestedONLINE CHATTING WITH GIRLS! Please only GIRLS hav a look inside for details?
    The best way to find an online friend is be yourself and be truely honest upfront. Also, find someone who has a common intrest with what you like or believe in (ex: religion, animals, movies, ect...).
    I don't believe in chatting online to find a BF. I'd rather meet face to face and have a real conversation. By that, you can get to know that person in real life as well as their personality.



    I don't know for you, but to me, I don't think I can learn about that person's personality by chatting online. And you have gotta admit, personality is a big deal as far as dating.
    you are to much of a bore to want to get to know you
    To really meet a girl you like or even make friends, get off your butt, away from the computer and into the world. Experience life and with it you will meet many great people.
    I agree with my twin brother your such a bore
    Firstly let me say:



    DUH!!!!!!



    If your interested in sexual talks and horny tales how can girls EVER find you interesting???



    You want my advice, loose the sex and go for your personalities, girls dig those who have great personaltities not just great sex...

    If you want friends, act like a good friends...girls talk...you listen....its information nd you might never know when it'll be useful.



    Who matches you???That is an answer even I cant wait to find out.



    P/S girls like honesty, tell tales honestly about yourself
    hey man. do u really think meeting a girl online is the best way to get a girl frend. yaar, just go to shaadi.com or something. ure not gonna find a girl friend online! would u rather talk to someone on the computer not knowing what they look like (could potentially be an 80 year old grandma) or go out on a real date with a real live person, yes a person in actual flesh. just a thought

    Girl of my dreams on bus?

    Today on the bus I talked to the girl of my dreams like I barely know anything about her, but she is amazing I don't know why, but I have a feeling about her.

    So what happened is I came on the bus and she was sitting down. We both looked at each other, so I sat in the spot behind her. Then for like 2 minutes I debated talking to her then I finally was about to, but her phone rang. So I was forced to back off. Then I had to wait until she was done on the phone and it took me around 5-10 more minutes to get the courage to talk to her.

    Then I finally made up some excuse like, ';Secuse me does this bus go to ______.';

    and I tried to make conversation after that, but I couldn't keep the talk going for that long. Then at the end I asked so is this the stop and she said yea almost, and i thanked her then got off.

    This is my problem I screwed up so bad i don't think i can forgive myself, how can I see her again I have to talk to her again. I need any advice, I know I should of talked more, but it was wired my mind froze, usually I'm chatting girls up, but I couldn't do it, I need to find her. I'll do almost anything to get even ten minutes with her just to talk to her and get her number so I can get to know her better.Girl of my dreams on bus?
    aw that's like a movie and with this scene u should find her on the bus again and just tell her what u feel without freaking her out. and ask if u could actually get to know her( she will hopefully get that hint and give her number).ask the coffee question typical line can i take you out to coffee.or change it up maybe dinner if ur feeling adventurous. Girl of my dreams on bus?
    Aw that's nice. Since you're not being an idiot boy (term lol) it seems like you really like her! I say see her again on the bus, and say do you know _____';. Say ANYTHING!! Anything. Just do it!



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    What you got was stage fright. Happens to the best of us, especially when the heart is racing out of control. Don't beat yourself up, as is very normal. When you see her again let her know what a fraiddie cat you were. She will appreciate it. Go soft on getting her number. That might be a little to much, wait for session 3.
    you said it your self, you don't know anything about her. Quit skinnen, stop grinnen, and wait. She did say it was Almost her stop which means she was being cautious. The old come on don't always work. Your back seat tactics sort a suck!
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  • Ladies Penpal Hunt: How can I find a girl to chat with that enjoys walking on men in shoes/boots?

    I would love to find a girl that I could talk with about being walked on by girls or kissing/licking there shoes/boots/sandals/etc. Why does it seem so hard? Anyone open to this?Ladies Penpal Hunt: How can I find a girl to chat with that enjoys walking on men in shoes/boots?
    it's probably hard because that has got to be the most disturbing sickest .s.h.i.t. anybody has ever heard ofLadies Penpal Hunt: How can I find a girl to chat with that enjoys walking on men in shoes/boots?
    Have you forgotten to take your medication?

    What is the best way to Facebook chat this girl at my school who I like but we haven't talked yet?

    She knows who I am and I think she liked me at some point recently. She is two years younger though and we haven't actually talked before yet. I added her a few days ago. Her birthday is on Wednesday, and we both go to the same school, with no sports in common. So how do I start a conversation, and what do I say in it? She's in 9th, I'm in 11th grade.What is the best way to Facebook chat this girl at my school who I like but we haven't talked yet?
    Just be like Hey there is a party in my pants and you're invitedWhat is the best way to Facebook chat this girl at my school who I like but we haven't talked yet?
    Seriously just say ';hey how's it going (on facebook)'; I see your birthday is coming up'; ';any special plans'; and when she respond just go with the flow, now if a silent moment occur start asking her about her classes or music like ';whats new on your iPod or come out and say something funny girls like a good laugh. But before all of this search her facebook and see what she digs.



    Hey if it don't work you only have to see her for a year and a half, and maybe she is sooooo not your type anyway.
    Well I.M her or whatever and you have a good topic to start on: her birthday. Just ask her whats she doing for her birthday. Most girls will run on about this kinds of topics.

    So just be like ';heey,'; and if she replies, just try to execute the conversation on her birthday party/hangout or whatever.
    Wish her a happy birthday and give her pink roses. that means love. she will think it's sweet and probably the best gift ever, especially from a older guy. it's so sweet how you like a freshman. then you should try and take her on a date for her birthday or in the future and take her to a pininc or something romantic.
    she'll prob fall for it being a naive, young 9th grader, so you could prob just chat her up and she would like it. Yet, for me that would be odd if we never talked. you should start a short convo with her and then the next day chat her up on facebk to continue your previous chat.
    go through the whole hey watz up thing first. majority of girls like telling/talking about themselves or watz happening in their life. stay away from conversations about school unless there is a teaches everyone hates. talk about that teacher. and make her LAUGH. :D laughing is fun and will get her attention more. keep the conversation happy. good luck
    Just say happy birthday. She probably still thinks you are cute and will LOVE that a cute 11th grader started a converstion with her!!! So im guessing you think shes hot because you don't know her personally.
    cant you find a girl whos in ur grade or just one yearyonger shes like ur sister jeez people. but if u really wanna talk to her b like heyy thanx for the add and then if she replies then shes intreseted if she dosent then leave her alone
    on wednesday just chat her up and say hey happy birthday then she'll probably respond with a thanks. and then just flow from there and talk to her bro.
    hmm.... you could sa hey was that you i saw in the cafeteria today? and shell say umm..no? and be like ooh!! im sorry! and then be like oh but you look so familiar you go to my school right? and then start a convo!
    how can you like someone you havent even spoken to?
    Awhhh. Sorry I am a real romantic. But anyway give her a rose on her birthday and don't tell who it's from(tape it onto her locker if you know which one it is(or on her desk). Then on that night tell her you saw a rose on her desk/locker then when she is like yeah... I don't know who it is from though say it was me and i kinda like you. Then offer to take her out on a late birthday date the next day. It would be so romantic.

    How can I be more TALKATIVE around girls?

    I mean, when I chat with them ONLINE or by TEXTING, I'm really good at talking to them %26amp; making them laugh. HOWEVER, when I talk to girls face-to-face, I can't come up with ANYTHING to talk about with them! It's also true for guys - I'm not really talkative with my guy friends either...


    So, the question is: how can I transfer the talkativeness I have when I chat with girls ONLINE to when I meet them face-to-face?





    PS: Asked the same question yesterday, just wanting more input from more people :)How can I be more TALKATIVE around girls?
    Just make them laugh and ask them about themselves. Girls LOVE talking about themselves. When a girl says something, ask a follow-up question and make a lot of ';me too'; statements so that she knows you two have something in common.





    Also, play hard to get (I learned this lesson). Don't always be around them or give them the attention they love. This will make them flock to you; believe me. Girls want what they can't have. Treat them like you would your friends or something. Give them attention, then blow them off and/or ignore them through texts or phone calls when they try to contact you. Say you're sick or tired if they ask you to hang out. And finally, don't be too agreeable and complimentary. They're used to getting this from guys. STAND OUT AND BE DIFFERENT. In the end, just be yourself and not afraid to express yourself. You were born YOU. If a girl isn't going to like YOU for YOU then she isn't the right girl for you anyway. The goal is to find a girl you love and spend the rest of your life with her. You need to find THAT GIRL. You will not be able to do that if you are not yourself. Good luck man, and don't be afraid of rejection. It happens to the best of us, but you never know until you try!





    Best of luck!How can I be more TALKATIVE around girls?
    just talk and make jokes. not that hard.
    it just takes courage. as simple as that
    I need to figure this out too. wait.... im a girl..............





    LESBIAN XD
    I told you, get drunk. Or imagine she's a guy or a close friend you're comfortable with talking to
    drink a shot of liquor..jp! grab your balls,be brave,and go talk!
    just talk about the what ever you chat with... or even talk about the chat =D
    Stop texting. Just relax and don't worry about saying anything silly or goofy, just be yourself!
    just bring up something you were talking about before lik while you were texting and be lik memmber that
    Cocaine
    pretend ur online just dont put ur hands up and type.be ur self dont talk all about ur self but have a good time.
    you just have to learn how to be confident in your self
    that's odd, try getting her talking about something and then giving your two cents. that's what conversation is all about one person says something and the other plays off of it and the dialogue evolves
    try figuring out what the girls in particular are interested in, learn about it and then offer your opinions and knowledge. It's actually quite impressive when a guy is informed on a topic that girls like.
    Be sweet and be a gentleman you don't have to talk too much just pick up her books if she drops them and open doors for her. if she look cold ask if she wants your jacket. simple things like that.


    As for talking just normal conversation like so what class are you going to next (if your in school) and What shes been up to. But act really interested the thing that bothers the crap out of me is when their like so how are you and then while your telling them they have this totally bored expression on their face.. gosh its just like saying look i really don't care so shut up. Hope this helps.. were not THAT complex! :)
    When you are texting or online no one can see you and you can be whoever you want to be!!!


    Stop judging yourself and start not giving a ****!!!


    Stop worrying about what people will think of you!!


    They are going to think what they think regardless....so just act like no one is listening and it doesn't matter...try it for a day or two and see what happens!
    talk about your life and let her talk about her own life don't try to be all cool and have things in common. and try not to blush just pretend you texting her or something
    just dont be worried about what there gonna think or anything..just TALK!
    Open yur mouth...how bout that? I use to be that way too bro and you just have to learn to take a deep breath and talk. Your obviously a talkative outgoing person online. Now it's time to take that to the real world. Next time yur gona talk to a girl close yur eyes, take a deep breath, and say the funniest thing that comes to mind. Yur either gona hit a homer or strike out, but you won't know till you try. If you strike out...who cares move on and try again!
    Start of asking them did you see that movie (example twilight new moon) and that will start you off and don't try so hard!
    Just ask them questions about themselves and let that guide the subject matter of the conversation. You don't have to come up with interesting topics to entertain her, just let her know that you're interested in her and her background. By asking questions you'll not only give yourself an idea of what she likes to talk about, you'll also be given a free pass on having to come up with conversational stimulants all by yourself.
    You need to work on your self-confidence. It seems that you're good when you're unseen but when it's face-to-face, your tendency is to fold up. There's really nothing to be shy about. These are your friends and you can talk to them about anything. No one is judging you so go ahead and just say what's in your mind. Talk about movies, games, school stuff. So many topics out here. Don't think that you have to impress them. Just be yourself. Have fun!
    Simple answer; get out more! The more you get out, the more people you'll meet and the more social situations you'll find yourself in. Being around girls, like most things in life is a learned process and the best way to improve yourself is to immerse yourself. Get off the computer and hit the town because you can't hide behind a screen forever; if you do, you'll simply sit there for the next 10 years asking yourself the same question.


    As for topics of conversation, any topic of conversation is a topic of conversation - if it can be talked about, talk about it - rather you talk about anything than you talk about nothing. Another very simple thing you may miss is the fact that 50% (or at least it should be 50%) of communcation comes from listening. If you can't think of anything to say, that doesn't mean nobody else has nothing to say - it'll help develop your relationships so they aren't uni-dimensional, provides easy set ups for witty remarks and puns and gives your own head time to tick over and create a new topic for when the current one's finished with.


    Thirdly, and lastly, it's a simple rule that if you have confidence people will like you, regardless of how much crap you talk. Again, all of this stems from getting out and having real life social interactions rather than LOL'ing with your e-buddies (no condescention meant here!). Brush up on your dialect and your body language skills and if you don't have confidence, feign it and it'll start coming naturally to you soon enough.


    Good luck!
    When I talk, texting or face to face, I just kind of speak my mind. The more you try to stay away from talking to people, the more that will pop into your head when you are talking. Try to hold back on texting conversations, and more on face to face. Texting also gives you time to think about what you say. When you're talking, take longer pauses in between sentences. I'm good at talking to people, but a lot of people are always trying to talk to me. Don't be so open to talk at every turn, because when you do talk, you will seem way more talkative.
    Just bring up things that you know you have in common, or things the girls like, also pay them compliments. (:
    umm yess it is hard for everyone who said it isn't, you have to become more confident! you have to believe in yourself and just go for it,its a new year just get out there and live life! i know its hard but there really isn't a trick to becoming more talkative you just have to ....do it :)
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  • How do u guys chat with girls for hours?

    Ok,i need to ask u guys how u can actually talk to girls for like hours? i really dont get how u all have so much things to talk about,i mean i can only talk for awhile,like 10 mins? then i totally run out of things to say and it starts to get soo dam awkward i just say i have to go -.- please,help me,how do u keep the conversation going and stuff?



    %26amp; im also afraid to ask her out,cos i always have nothing to say and it will be so damn awkward,what should i do?!



    also,after texting this girl for 2 weeks,i totally have nothing to text about anymore? Any suggestions? cos i really wanna text her, please help i beg uHow do u guys chat with girls for hours?
    joke around with her. talk about your day.

    just act like youre talking to a girl that you dont have feelings for. have a regular conversation.



    ASK HER OUT!! she's probably waiting for you to do it.

    How to chat with girls in msn? Any right method?

    She's 22 years old and i'm 17. I've just got no topic or subject to chat, she doesn't turn on the option called Show What i'm Listening. Last time i 've chatted with her, i dun even know how to say some words to express how i feel. I just wanna chat with her, but i dun know her interest or hobby. I dun know about her everything.

    Everytime i asked her a question, she would feel weird and said why u ask like that?

    then no more chat.How to chat with girls in msn? Any right method?
    girls like to talk about themselves.. lol

    Say

    how was your day

    what did you end up doing

    just ask her her favorite type of music , food , the general questions.

    a guy that is straight forward is attractiveHow to chat with girls in msn? Any right method?
    Just kind of mention what music you like or mention that you're eating something and say what it is, then ask her what her favorites are. If she doesn't want to talk, move on to someone else. Just ask her what she's interested in?
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  • I would like to chat via SKYPE with girls who shave swallowed a live goldfish.I wanna know this tradition!?

    I want to know about tradition of swallowing alive goldfish. Are there any girls who have swallowed a goldfish alive without chewing? I would like to chat with girls who have swallowed alive goldfish because I want to know what kind of feeling is it?Do they feel alive goldfsh inside their stomach?How much time is a goldfish alive in their stomachs?Have anyone puked alive golfish back? I have heard that such tradition exists in USA and in some Western countries when young girls swallow live goldfish whole, they sometimes puke them or sometimes keep them alive in their stomach for a while before fish dies . . . I would like ti chat about this tradition, I am online right now, my skype number is: abc0123456789xyz I would like to chat with such girls who have swallowed a live goldfish! Please contact me via skype I am very interested!I would like to chat via SKYPE with girls who shave swallowed a live goldfish.I wanna know this tradition!?
    yes I swallow live goldfish. I don't have skype but you can message me.

    I would like to chat via SKYPE with girls who shave swallowed a live goldfish.I wanna know this tradition!?

    I want to know about tradition of swallowing alive goldfish. Are there any girls who have swallowed a goldfish alive without chewing? I would like to chat with girls who have swallowed alive goldfish because I want to know what kind of feeling is it?Do they feel alive goldfsh inside their stomach?How much time is a goldfish alive in their stomachs?Have anyone puked alive golfish back? I have heard that such tradition exists in USA and in some Western countries when young girls swallow live goldfish whole, they sometimes puke them or sometimes keep them alive in their stomach for a while before fish dies . . . I would like ti chat about this tradition, I am online right now, my skype number is: abc0123456789xyz I would like to chat with such girls who have swallowed a live goldfish! Please contact me right now or at least answer in yahooI would like to chat via SKYPE with girls who shave swallowed a live goldfish.I wanna know this tradition!?
    My oh my, why don't yu just try it yourself? Worse thing that can happen is that you vomit.I would like to chat via SKYPE with girls who shave swallowed a live goldfish.I wanna know this tradition!?
    Kill yo'self.

    You're too weird to keep on living.

    It'll do everyone a favor.
    Does it turn you on or what??
    did you smoke a little

    crack before you wrote that ****.

    like honestly WTFFF

    you ****** right the **** up kid.

    get a life.

    How do I build up enough confidence to approach girls I dont know like on the city bus?

    I'm going to say my age at the bottom when you're done reading, or alot of you won't give me the chance to read what I just typed up.



    I've always had a problem with girls. I can talk to them fine if they are in a class of mine, or if they are a random peer. I CANNOT in any way, shape or form approach a girl I do not know or have never seen before, if its a girl I see on the bus,skytrain etc. I've been told by many people I'm extremely good looking, that I should attempt getting into the movies, or model. Apparently girls my age are ';intimidated'; by me and I completely hate it.



    There are the ';party'; type girls who have had many boyfriends, are high maintenance and tend to have slept around with alot of guys; these girls always take interest in me and want to talk to me and put out on me, but I am NOT attracted to these types of girls WHAT-SO-EVER. I think they are extremely shallow and am not attracted to them in any way.



    Then there are the girls who don't put out, the ones who seem innocent and aren't really popular or known, but are very mature and have high morals. I always seem to be attracted to these girls. It seems IMPOSSIBLE for me to get with one as in a relationship. I've come across many cute looking girls on the skytrain or bus, in the past I tried to initiate conversation, but it seems like I end up scaring them or creeping them out (thats what it seems like to me) and it just doesn't work.



    Now up until recently, I completely gave up and lost all motivation to even talk to girls. There has been times lately where a real cute looking girl who looks just like my type comes along and sits right beside me on the bench waiting for the bus, smiling at me- Now a days I don't even bother saying anything and sometimes I cant help myself but to give them a ';dirty'; look, and when we go our different ways I regret it and ask myself why the hell did I do that. In these situations, the girls tend to be a few years older than I am, because NOBODY thinks I'm my real age.



    So I'm 16. I average an age of between 22-24. A problem I'd admit, is I grew up much too fast, I live on my own already. all due to my upbringing. I'm 5'9 190 lbs with almost NO FAT, I'm a health nut. I go to the gym 7 days a week and have been doing so since I was 14.Almost everyone at my gym thinks I take steroids, but I would never. I don't drink, I don't do any drugs. I live a very healthy and active lifestyle. I just can't relate to most girls who are my age, who are usually shallow and immature.



    What advice can you give me, reading all of this? I'm at wits end and I just completely gave up. I refuse to sleep around at parties with drunk girls. By looking at me, you would think I'm a player. and I tend to always get stereotyped this just by my looks.



    (I know life isn't about chatting girls up etc, but I've recently started getting a bit lonely and would enjoy sharing my life with someone who deserved it)



    Any advice, please. I really don't know what more I can doHow do I build up enough confidence to approach girls I dont know like on the city bus?
    You sound like an amazing guy (and no, I promise I'm not hitting on you!!) the type any serious girl would like to date.

    Your problem is, you're going about this the wrong way.

    As one of those ';innocent'; girls, I can tell you the girls you're talking about are not going to date some random Joe who comes up to them on a train and asks them out. By doing something like that, you automatically tell us, ';Hey, I'm a player. I pick up chicks on trains.';

    Nope, not gonna work.

    So, what do you do?

    Find a girl in your day-to-day life you see frequently that you like, and pursue HER. No one yet? Just wait. Give it time...

    Trust me, there are good, wholesome girls out there who know how to have a good time without partying and putting out. But you DO have to be willing and patient to find them.

    While you're still single, concentrate on bettering yourself, so that when you meet the girl of your dreams you're READY for her.

    Don't get frustrated. I can't tell you how many girls I know who would LOVE to find a guy like you, who knows what he wants and is waiting for it.

    Trust me, it's worth it in the long run.How do I build up enough confidence to approach girls I dont know like on the city bus?
    LMAO!!!!!! OMG!!!!!! The reason they seem like you scared them is because this good looking man they dont know just sat down next to them on a CITY bus and started talking them. Im not sure where you live but in most places around the world thats considered creepy. Now I am crazy and loud and hyper but I have never done THAT. Its a lil dangerous and not to well of a plan to get girls. But if thats what you want to do then just keep on giving it a try. But if you want to come at it another way then find the type of girl you like at your school or gym and just have a casual convo!!

    Good Luck!! And dont be creepy!!! =)

    I would like to chat with girls who swallowed a live goldfish whole and kept in her tummy!?

    In western countries there is a tradition when young girls are swallowing live goldfish whole and keep them alive in their stomaches for a while. They sometimes puke alive goldfish back and still are having them safe and harmlessly, and sometimes they don't puke them out and swallowed fish are kept in their stomachs alive for sometime and then they are dying. I would like to know if there are such girls and I would like to chat with them via skype . . . . please tell me about your experience . . . what kind of feeling is it? how long stays a fish alive in your stomach? please answer me or chat via skypeI would like to chat with girls who swallowed a live goldfish whole and kept in her tummy!?
    LOL..... That kinda sounds grose but you can probably google that and find a chat room or something.I would like to chat with girls who swallowed a live goldfish whole and kept in her tummy!?
    I thought only ONE man could do that. His name is steven or stevie I'm not sure.
    try it yourself and find out, because that is just disgusting
    i've seen a gut do that b4 gross!!

    I would like to chat with girls who swallowed a live goldfish whole and kept in her tummy!?

    In western countries there is a tradition when young girls are swallowing live goldfish whole and keep them alive in their stomaches for a while. They sometimes puke alive goldfish back and still are having them safe and harmlessly, and sometimes they don't puke them out and swallowed fish are kept in their stomachs alive for sometime and then they are dying. I would like to know if there are such girls and I would like to chat with them via skype . . . . please tell me about your experience . . . what kind of feeling is it? how long stays a fish alive in your stomach? please answer me or chat via skypeI would like to chat with girls who swallowed a live goldfish whole and kept in her tummy!?
    Hmmm ok that's weird...I would like to chat with girls who swallowed a live goldfish whole and kept in her tummy!?
    Pfffft! As if you could meet anyone like that - the poor fish'd be rotted away by the stomach acid, ergo it'd be impossible to keep one alive in there.



    P.S. Are you sure you're not making this up?
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    How do you boost your self confidence when ur around sooo many girls that are skinny and pretty?

    Most of my friends...well, basically a little more than 3/4th of my friends are fairly skinny and pretty, wear all those nice clothes, can attract almost any guy they walk past, and not only are they pretty, but some of them have great personalities that make you wonder why they are single!

    We have our random girl chats and they are totally oblivious to how it feels to be overweight. I would tell them that most people treat overweight people, especially girls, a lot differently than a skinny girl, but they don't believe it's true. Even when shopping, there's TONS of clothes out there in size xtra small, small, medium, and sometimes large, but it's so hard to find a decent price for sizes over that! Since I'm the overweight friend, I'm more of the out-cast, tag-along, or extra...



    Personally, I think I am a good overweight because at least you can still see my natural curves if I wear fitted clothes and not baggy clothes. At the moment, we're in Hawaii and seeing them be able to show off their bodies with no care in the world, dance in a rather...racy-like way, wear GORGEOUS dresses, etc has made me feel a bit isolated. They would tell me, ';Well if you want to lose weight then just start losing weight if you want to change yourself so bad!';, but it's not that easy...I've tried and am still trying. They love me for who I am, but I want to feel fully comfortable around people and among friends so...what are ways I can do that?

    Also, being a 'flattering' overweight girl, what are things I can do to attract a boy? :)How do you boost your self confidence when ur around sooo many girls that are skinny and pretty?
    A lot of guys like a girl with meat on her bones. I've never dated a guy who wanted me to lose weight but a couple of them wanted me to gain weight! You shouldn't lose weight though unless you feel it is affecting your health.



    Would you really want a boyfriend who is only attracted to you initially because of how you look? You would have a much more fulfilling and mature relationship with someone who was attracted to you because of your personality. If they love who you are then they will love what you are as well.



    But here's the best tip of all. Be confident, kind and smile often!! You say you like your body because of your natural curves, so don't let some crappy store at the mall that caters to making people feel like crap or some skanky girls at the beach make you feel differently about it! Find qualities about yourself that you like and flaunt them, and I don't just mean wearing low cut tops, I mean if you're great at telling jokes, tell them. If you're a nice person, be an example of kindness to all those around you. People will always notice someone who takes the extra effort to be an exemplary person. When you walk with your head high, people will take notice mark my words!!How do you boost your self confidence when ur around sooo many girls that are skinny and pretty?
    Don't lose weight to be like all the other girls. Only lose weight if it's what will make you feel happy with YOURself. As for trying to lose weight and it being difficult, that's totally a normal thing for women. It's hard for women to lose weight. Have you considered seeing your doctor? He can put you on a monitored plan to get you to your healthy goal.
    not all guy want them skinny dumb americans.I like my women a bit large (ten or fifteen pounds overweight yo).



    Just look at queen latifah,a large women that is also beautiful.
    First of all extra weight means troubles with your helth. I wonder how your parents didn't prevent it when you were still little. Now you need to exercise. Cyndy Croufordt exercises are good. also run! That will defenately help. But don't expect results too soon becides once you reach it you still wil have to keep it so, less sugar and solt- more meat and vegetables. But everything of course got limit!

    How to look a girl in the eyes?

    Hey guys, Im 16 and i have difficulty with talking with pretty girls eye to eye. For some reason, i can chat to girls normally but when its a pretty or attractive girl, i cant talk eye to eye with her(im not trying to be mean). i always tend to look away from their eyes when were chatting because i always feel weird and im always struggling to think of a conversation topic or start one. help would be appreciatedHow to look a girl in the eyes?
    First off, relax. A lot of people have eye contact difficulties. You don't always need a conversation topic in mind to talk to someone. Just start with a simple ';hello'; and go with the flow. It's much more natural and doesn't sound 'rehearsed'. As for looking them in the eyes, start by looking at them for a few seconds, acknowledge what they are saying, and then look away for a few seconds. Of course try not to stare them in the eyes.How to look a girl in the eyes?
    lol look me in the eye and tell me you hate me laugh.out.loud
    Just relax, and then pretend you are just talking to ';one of the guys'; everything comes out naturally when you talk with them....so be yourself! She will like you for you! I have the same problem, except with a guy...he has the brownest eyes you have ever seen! I never can keep his gaze, but I try to pretend I'm looking right at him...just look at their forehead or something, they won't tell if you are looking them in the eyes or not, hope this helped!!! =)
    pretend that

    if you don't look at her,

    she'll shoot lasers out of her eyes

    and blind you.



    haha okay, seriously, it's always good to look someone in the eyes when you talk to them, even if just out of courtesy.

    pretend she's any other girl.

    trust me, if i saw someone look at the ground while i was talking i would probably think i was boring them to death or something.
    pretend you're more attractive :)?



    I've never dated anyone so I don't have great advice...

    but when I hang with guys I love it when they look at me when they talk :)

    Is it weird that I stop in the hallways to listen to random girls conversation? Should I try online dating?

    i'm 23 and i never been on a date. i have never had a friend that was a girl and i don't have any friends. i just moved in my dorm last week and i like to stop and listen to girls chatting when i go through the halls just to see what their talking about. i like hearing their voices and observing and what they have to say about guys.

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    I have tried hanging out with girls. maybe not a lot but yeah. i have hanged out with girls but they seem to lose interest. i guess one of the reasons are is that i'm socially inept. i never had a social life. i go out like 3 times a year with a ';friend';. sometimes i feel it's pointless to try because I feel even worse. when i see a guy get girls attention it makes me not want to try due to past experiences. sometimes girls will say to someone';your in my other class'; (well it happened today) and i will be in her class but she doesn't notice it

    and bad thing about it is that the girl that was in my other class recognized another girl from a different class but she didn't say to me ';ur in my other class'; when i sat next to her and talked to her!!! ugh makes me feel i don't exist

    NO ONE leaves there door opens in the dorm i'm in. it's very non-active. it's an upperclassmen dorm. there aren't much activities going on. no good reason to get together besides maybe intramural sports.

    i like listening to them talk about GUYS not about girly things!!!

    Today my roommate said ';you want to go to the club '; I asked him ';when today 11:30 ?'; He said ';yeah';. I just kinda looked at him. He said ';i'll give you the details at 11:30';. He NEVEr got back with me.

    MY CUZ told me to get a fat girl because he thinks i act like i'm in elementary school. he says no hott girl will like me because of how i talk. i'm not immature just behind socially. i don't go out much so i don't have anything interesting to sayIs it weird that I stop in the hallways to listen to random girls conversation? Should I try online dating?
    You have to get over your shyness.

    Seriously, I have a bit of a similar problem (crush) and I'm not getting the results I want! If you're attractive, you can work in that area you need improvements in.

    Online dating is just an alternative, you can try that! Nothing wrong with it!Is it weird that I stop in the hallways to listen to random girls conversation? Should I try online dating?
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    Wow dude your way to old to start now. I think its too late

    Is it weird that I try to listen to random girls conversation?

    i'm 23 and i never been on a date. i have never had a friend that was a girl and i don't have any friends. i just moved in my dorm last week and i like to stop and listen to girls chatting when i go through the halls just to see what their talking about. i like hearing their voices and observing and what they have to say about guys.

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    I have tried hanging out with girls. maybe not a lot but yeah. i have hanged out with girls but they seem to lose interest. i guess one of the reasons are is that i'm socially inept. i never had a social life. i go out like 3 times a year with a ';friend';. sometimes i feel it's pointless to try because I feel even worse. when i see a guy get girls attention it makes me not want to try due to past experiences. sometimes girls will say to someone';your in my other class'; (well it happened today) and i will be in her class but she doesn't notice it

    and bad thing about it is that the girl that was in my other class recognized another girl from a different class but she didn't say to me ';ur in my other class'; when i sat next to her and talked to her!!! ugh makes me feel i don't exist

    NO ONE leaves there door opens in the dorm i'm in. it's very non-active. it's an upperclassmen dorm. there aren't much activities going on. no good reason to get together besides maybe intramural sports.

    i like listening to them talk about GUYS not about girly things!!!

    Today my roommate said ';you want to go to the club '; I asked him ';when today 11:30 ?'; He said ';yeah';. I just kinda looked at him. He said ';i'll give you the details at 11:30';. He NEVEr got back with me.

    MY CUZ told me to get a fat girl because he thinks i act like i'm in elementary school. he says no hott girl will like me because of how i talk. i'm not immature just behind socially. i don't go out much so i don't have anything interesting to sayIs it weird that I try to listen to random girls conversation?
    If you are already somewhere and there happens to be a groupd of girls by you, then it's ok to listen. It's weird to stop in hallways to listen. If you want a girlfriend, you have to get out and meet people, make friends, and be that nice/cool guy everyone wants to hang out with. I didn't use to have much of a social life but then I started to go out with friends and my social skills have really gotten better. Now I have no problem making friends. The same is for you, just get out there, don't be shy, and meet new people! You will love life so much more if you do!Is it weird that I try to listen to random girls conversation?
    yes why? Well to tell you the truth its weird to listen becuse theres no reason
    umm...yes it is very wierd
    OK look, I'm in the same boat as you, but I'm trying to get out of it.



    First of all, don't listen in on their conversations, that's just creepy.

    Second, try to hang out with girls a lot more. If you see them losing interest, just say 'screw you' and go on to someone else. Don't be shy. Introduce yourself to them, show them you're open and awesome.



    I'm not lying. As I type this answer I just came back 20 minutes ago from a private patio party on the Toronto Centre Islands for Frosh Week. I went around and introduced myself. I met some nice girls. It's not that bad when you stop being shy OK??
    if its an interesting topic that catches ur attention like a movie or a celeb or some social topic then its ok i guess... but, if the girls are talking about there personal lifes its quite rude, i think. And also, just be yourself with girls. and put urself out there. if the girl likes you then she likes you, if not dont push it. you will find the one for you and you will know when. and dnt let girls see u spying they think thats creepy.



    dont worry. you will find her.



    Good Luck !!!!! =D
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    Hi..I recently started staying with my husband. I discovered that my husband watches porn when I am away from him. I also discovered that he has an online girl friend in the same company as his.

    He had online sex chat relation ship with her for more than an year. I found the he checks her and one more girl's(this girl is also from his company) orkut profile daily. I feel that my husband is cheating on me. I don't trust him any more. what to do?. He had sex with me but he never spoke to me in romantic manner as he did it with the chat girl friend. Pls suggest.How to tackle my husband?
    So he's basically having an affair and you are tolerating it?How to tackle my husband?
    Confront him with all of this nonsense.

    Suggest counseling, marriage and perhaps sex addictions.

    Remove the damn power cables from the computer and monitor and hide them well, then leave a big not on the monitor reading: ';For great sex please visit your own wife and bedroom.';
    What do u mean by recently started staying with ur husband??

    Were u married and wasnt with him? Though I am not sure what your circumstances are but

    If this is the case then give him a chance, ask him to stop this ****.

    Judge him before you decide anything.
    Girl, you have a problem!

    Cheating is not just the physical sex! Cheating is everything you do with another person that is not faithful! And your husband just crossed all those lines!



    I would not trust him either! How can you? No one would! Even not him!



    My dear. it is time for the talking time... no body likes it but it is essential, it is the motivation talk with the limits...



    Find a good time when you are both not stressed out or tired, have enough time , no kids or family members around, and tell him you would like to talk to him now.



    Tell him what you have found, all details, don't spare nothing! Don't accuse, just name them one by one. The purpose of the talk is to heal the relationship , not fight!



    Tell him how you feel about it and what it caused you, that you feel cheated, not secured, can't trust him and so on.

    Ask him for the reasons for his acts? Ho owe you that!



    Then it is time for the limits! Ask him to end it immediately! Terminate all outside playing, on and off line. Say it as a no way to change it. He needs to end it . End of story!



    Tell him that if he loves you and want you to be with him longer than 1 week more, than he needs to follow your guide lines and rules now because apparently he did not manage to do it by himself correctly!



    He can't just go with the flow, as he likes it. He needs to follow some rules , like all of us. A relationship is something we build based on trust and other compounds as well.



    He broke some of them and now needs to fix it. It is going to be hard, but sometimes people make mistakes and fix them, we are all human. Give him the chnace to change it and fix it.



    If he makes it and fix it to your satisfaction, then you will have a good relationship for the future as well. If he does not , then if I were you I would leave him!



    Hope things will be better soon.
    get him in the bathtub and threaten to throw a plug into the bathtub until he stops.
    I think you have to talk to him about it and try to know what he gains or like about those things so that you find a way of doing it for him instead of cheating on you
    First you watch his body, don't fall for the head fakes. Then you put your head into his chest and wrap your arms around him. Make sure you drive your legs or he will run right over you. Once he is down on the ground point at him and call him a wimp, then do some kind of celebratory dance. Good luck
    drop kick
    I find your answer pleasantly stupid. File for divorce now. Do everyone a favor and grow up emotionally before you fall back in lust.
    Hi U r the wife and have every right to know about him. Speak out directly and watch his reaction. Dont think I am supporting him or so, but be practical. Some male has got a flavour of erotic chat (if it is notmore than that , u can bear it). Be open minded. Ask your self how many times u have shown interest in sex with him. How many times you expressed ur happiness about the sex? There is an error in ur attitude too. U have mentioned that u have started living with your hubby recently. Where u were all along? Indian women thinks that they have no right to express their sexual happiness with their husbands. Talk and explore the happiness from him. U first find it out where u r lagging and what he is expecting form you. Give and take my dear friend. If he is a chatter no harm , nothing lost. U can bring him back in order. IF NOT kick him out leagally. Because U r a responsible wife and got every right to do so.
    Check ';return to sender'; on the mail order bride envelope.
    Talk to him about this and get it closed.
    online or in person it is still cheating! you are the only one that can decide what to do. are you going to put up with it and go on with your life as if nothing happened? if you are going to leave make copies of his online chats for court.

    ADD: if he is cheating on you it is his problem with himself and it has nothing to do with him lacking in his relationship with you! men/women cheat and it would not matter if they had sex with you every night! a cheater is just that a cheater!
    Take out the legs.
    He is lacking something from your relationship that he can get online from these girls (sluts).

    Join him!

    Make it a joint venture online and if it pans out...invite one of the girls over.

    Now wait a minute... Hear me out.

    Make it clear that the only sex he will get is with you being there and no secrets.

    But whats good for the gander is just as good for the goose.

    Share and share alike.
    go for the kidney.
    rugby tackle, then beat him with one of those newfangled shoe things you women are so keen on