Should i tell him that i stayed for him?Please help me...?

After i lost my virginity 2 mothns ago and then felt used when the person broke up with me..I had sex with this new guy i met.

Well friday night we slept together and it was so romantic he hugged me the whole night and stuff.



That morning after we finish having sex I told him that im going back to my country this week..He ask me for how long?I said to live there..Probably, im not coming back?Then he stayed quite..



Our chatting



Girl (9:59:25 PM):

Papi can you let me know if want to see me tomorrow since im leaving Wednesday

Say yes or no?

Lately you're acting weird...If im bothering you let me know so i could stop doing it

Anyways let me know if you can or not so i could stop wasting our time asking you..

Boy (10:14:23 PM): so u seriousl;y leaviug tom?

Girl (10:14:49 PM): You tought i was kidding?

Boy (10:15:06 PM): no but okkk

Girl (10:15:33 PM): I do NOT want to leave but if i tell you what is happening..You will be in shock

Boy (10:15:44 PM): where r u going

Girl (10:15:53 PM): Puerto Rico

Boys (10:16:36 PM): its nice there

Girl (10:16:43 PM): Nah..Its boring

Girl (10:17:03 PM): Papi i want to see you tomorrow....

Girl (10:17:22 PM): Im leaving wednesday at night time

Girl (10:24:24 PM): Babe whats wrong..Why you quite?

Boy (10:29:01 PM): whats the point

Boy (10:29:04 PM): u leaving

Boy (10:29:10 PM): why do u wanna see me

Girl (10:29:25 PM): Because you mean something to me i do really want to see you

Girl (10:30:01 PM): Is it hard to understand when someone wants to hug and kiss the person its attracted to

Boy (10:30:27 PM): its ok hun

Girl (10:30:35 PM): What you mean is okay

Boy (10:30:36 PM): not everyone get what they wnats

Girl (10:30:48 PM): Why are you acting like that?

Girl (10:31:19 PM): ?

Boy(10:31:34 PM): im actually kind pof jelious

Boy (10:31:40 PM): i wanna go to pr

Boy (10:31:41 PM): lol

Girl (10:31:49 PM): Awww are you serious?

Boy (10:31:50 PM): sick of ny

Girl(10:31:54 PM): LOL

Girl (10:32:03 PM): It might be nice with you lol

Boy (10:32:11 PM): maybe

Girl (10:32:17 PM): LOL

Girl (10:32:35 PM): Please dirty boy i want to see you..I want to talk to you..Tell you things

Girl (10:32:43 PM): Do chakachaka lol

Boy (10:33:21 PM): lol no chakachaka

Girl(10:33:35 PM): Is okay but why not?

Girl (10:33:36 PM): lol

Boy (10:34:00 PM): tired

Girl (10:34:15 PM): Awww is okay

Girl(10:34:26 PM): Just see you,hug you and kiss you is enought

Boy(10:34:36 PM): for what lol

Boy (10:34:47 PM): babe just have a good flight

Girl (10:34:48 PM): OMG why are you acting like that..?

Boy (10:34:55 PM): im really gonna miss u

Boy (10:35:01 PM): u r very nice girl

Girl(10:35:07 PM): Awwww



So yesterday i decided to stay because something is holding me back...Like i cant leave....And he been acting rude and telling me to have a good flight...Like being sarcastic...

Should i tell him that i stayed for him?Should i tell him that i stayed for him?Please help me...?
BORIQUA BORIQUA BORIQUA!!~~~ ;)



First off, I gotta tell you a thing or two about relationships that most girls these days aren't getting, but it's fundamental to know if you want real love...and don't want to get used up..



even back during the times when humans were created, guys were the hunters, women were the gatherers. Guys fought each other for a woman. It was normal. Girls need to be more mysterious, not to ignore guys too much, but let the guys chase them just enough that they will have to work for what they want.



Girls are like apples on an apple tree, the ones at the top only a few guys go after because they know they're not easy to get and are very special, so not as many make them climb. The ones at the bottom are easier to get, and guys can tell by the way these girls dress and act, how these girls disrespect their bodies and their minds, thus making many guys want them for only one thing...sex..



if you want a guy to love you, you need to teach him how to respect you. If he don't respect you, be that strong Puerto Rican girl you are and leave. Puerto Ricans are sexy we don't need all that bullshit, do you have any idea how many guys would LOVE to be with a Puerto Rican girl?



Guys are made to chase, let them chase you.



Go ahead and tell him you stayed for him, have the guts. But if he don't respect you still and keeps making those annoying sarcastic comments, have the guts to tell him you're not putting up with that and leave.Should i tell him that i stayed for him?Please help me...?
Im not reading all that........
MAYBE YOU SHOULD TELL HIM BECAUSE IT MIGHT MEAN ALOT.
If I'm reading the messages right, then it's probably that he was interested in you, but I think it was it, he cannot promise you anything. Rather than for him, you stayed for yourself, because you wanted to be with him.



If I were you, I wouldn't have stayed for something like that. I don't see the point of telling him why you stay anyway, because it's for you, not for him. Not telling him probably makes it very uncomfortable for you, because I think you felt like you sacrificed something for him without being appreciated. But well, telling him? You're putting pressure onto him, and we all know, you cannot force a person to get attached to someone.



Live you life for yourself, and best of luck to you!
Not yet. See where it is heading. If after a while y'all get serious then tell him.