I'm Getting Desperate and Paranoid...Please Help!?

I love my boyfriend so much and I want to keep him. Recently, I found him chatting girls over the internet and making friends like exchanging emails. He told me that it's nothing and those were his friends only. But it really hurts me and make me sick and worry all the time. What shall I do with this? And I notice also that he is always complaining on my looks these days. Please give me some advice also on how to make myself attractive to him and he will stop flirting with other girls. :(I'm Getting Desperate and Paranoid...Please Help!?
Lots of people do that stuff online, for all he knew, he probably didn't even know the real gender of the people he was talking to until he made friends with them.



After he found out, it didn't matter because they were already friends.I'm Getting Desperate and Paranoid...Please Help!?
It's normal for people to swap emails and chat with eachother
Dump him. I love my girlfriend and she always looks good to me.
Make him dinner,You know,candle lights,wine, soft music. Dress up!! and seduce the hell out of him!!!
trust him if you keep nagging him it will push him away as for your looks try something new or try harder he isnt a great bf to make you feel you dont look good
first of all you shouldn't really be worried about anything. the both of you are in a relationship and im sure he respects that. everyone has friends, you probably even do what he does. just try not to forget that hes your boyfriend and show him that you love him. you don't sound too good, you shouldn't be stressin over this kinda stuff. if you really dont care then just do what you have to do .....
First off... you should never have to try and better yourself or the way you look so your boyfriend will stop flirting with other girls. If this is something that bothers you and you have told him this, if he truely cares about you, he will stop doing it. Dont ever try and change who you are to make someone love you. and about him complaining about your looks!?!? That is crap! He should love you for who you are and not what you look like. If he continues to hurt you by flirting with other girls.. drop him! hes not worth it!
tell him to take you shopping so u he won't be able to complain on how you look cuz he bought the clothes for you!!!!! lol =) sorry if this wasn't helpful
dont change yourself for him, if he complains about your personality or looks he obviously doesnt like you for you.



he could be just friends with these girls

but it is also very easy to fall for someone through sweet words, emoticons and the humour that the internet allows.

he could be leading them on easily.



he isnt worth it if he complains about your looks,

and if you feel he would go to another girl because your not pretty enough, then you should go to another guy who will appreciate and care about you. this relationship wouldnt be heading anywhere but disaster if that is the way it is, sorry.
All good relationships have these sorts of problems. Sit down with him and open up to him, tell him exactly how you feel, and tell him that it bothers you. If you really love him, you have to be able to trust him, so don't expect him to stop. Just make sure that he's open with you about it.
just like rotten milk a sour relationship can not be fixed when one has already moved on with their actions, he is trying to break up with you in a less hurtful way, but since you are not getting the hint now he is attacking your looks trying to make you leave him and since you are still clinging on the next thing he will do isl let you catch him with pix and personal private messages, and by then hopefully you get the hint it is over, nothing we say or tell you to do will make you attractive to him again, let him go, please dont' put yourself thru this pain, keep your pride and self respect and you can't keep him you already lost him good luck
how long have you been with your bf? - the very same thing happened to me a few years ago %26amp; we have recently split up we were together 6 years, by the way you described the relationship he sounds like he's having his cake %26amp; eating it, i.e he has the relationship with you but then he's flirting with other people, he's also making you feel bad which is obviously lowering your confidence. please take my advise no matter how hard you try to stop him he'll find a way back, he'll find a way of making you feel guilty that your questioning him, i was paranoid for the biggest part of my relationship because i just didnt trust him, your stronger than this %26amp; you can face the world without him, you deserve someone who loves you.