Advice pls! Boyfriend secretly attempted to start a fb conversation with a girl on fb?

So I logged on to my boyfriend's fb account one day because he wanted me to change one of his settings for him and I found a message in sent folder, basically saying hi and wanting to initiate conversation with a particular girl. I click on her profile and she obviously wasn't his friend and she was pretty hot/sexy.

My boyfriend didn't get a reply from her but i was wondering why he did that in the first place? I have been wanting to confront him without trying to sound like i am a paranoid girlfriend who went through his sent messages.



It makes me wonder if he does chat girls up online, possibly on other chat websites?

What should i do? is this normal? Am i being way too paranoid? I keep thinking about it!

If your advice is to confront him about it, how shld i go about doing it?Advice pls! Boyfriend secretly attempted to start a fb conversation with a girl on fb?
no matter how much a guy is gonna say it means nothing, there is NO reason for a guy in a relationship to be chatting up other girls. im a girl and i used to have fb and i deactivated it for that reason. most guys see it as a dating site, and try to hit on girls hoping that it will lead to something. it just made me sick, so i deleted everyone and deactivated it. you need to confront him because that is the only way he is gonna stop.



good luckAdvice pls! Boyfriend secretly attempted to start a fb conversation with a girl on fb?
Break up with him. Don't even tell him why. If he asks, tell him it's a secret.



Cheating comes in different forms. This is one of them. He is being unfaithful, obviously. Anyone condoning it would probably cheat, too.
Of course you'd worry. It's normal to. Don't worry about it. If he becomes friends and talks to her consistantly then ask him about it. Don't give it a second thought. It's nothing.
why the hell you looking at his messages anyway? dont trust him? you feel like you aint good enough? just because some girl you see on the internet is hotter then you, you got to go in defense mode? guys like a girl they can trust. since you were already and sneaky little @$$, you should tell him what you saw, NO relationship can survive without trust
i say be secure in your self and pay that no mind. now when you catch him cheating that's another thing. no matter what you should not have been reading his stuff so you can't confront him about it unless your ready for a big fight . let it go
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dont confront him bluntly.make a conversation,say ';hey,have you tried to chat on other websites?'; im just wondering..things like that.make it a light conversation,dont sound like your accusing him.
first of all...you have broken into his privacy, that's a big no-no. and it's just a freakin' facebook conversation...how old are you? there's obviously no sign of trust, which crumbles any kind of potentially healthy relationship. guys are going to ';chat';(aka look at and talk to) with other girls...it's a GUY with all sorts of hormones running wildly through his body and there is absolutely nothing in this world that can make ANY girl change that. my HUSBAND still notices when a girl has a huge rack...but I'M going to be the one he's coming home with to sleep with and love. this is not a healthy relationship by any stretch of my imagination. grow up a little bit more and mature a little too and you might have a better chance of having a good relationship and possibly finding THE ONE. if i were you, i wouldnt expect for this to be THE ONE.