How to tackle my husband?

Hi..I recently started staying with my husband. I discovered that my husband watches porn when I am away from him. I also discovered that he has an online girl friend in the same company as his.

He had online sex chat relation ship with her for more than an year. I found the he checks her and one more girl's(this girl is also from his company) orkut profile daily. I feel that my husband is cheating on me. I don't trust him any more. what to do?. He had sex with me but he never spoke to me in romantic manner as he did it with the chat girl friend. Pls suggest.How to tackle my husband?
So he's basically having an affair and you are tolerating it?How to tackle my husband?
Confront him with all of this nonsense.

Suggest counseling, marriage and perhaps sex addictions.

Remove the damn power cables from the computer and monitor and hide them well, then leave a big not on the monitor reading: ';For great sex please visit your own wife and bedroom.';
What do u mean by recently started staying with ur husband??

Were u married and wasnt with him? Though I am not sure what your circumstances are but

If this is the case then give him a chance, ask him to stop this ****.

Judge him before you decide anything.
Girl, you have a problem!

Cheating is not just the physical sex! Cheating is everything you do with another person that is not faithful! And your husband just crossed all those lines!



I would not trust him either! How can you? No one would! Even not him!



My dear. it is time for the talking time... no body likes it but it is essential, it is the motivation talk with the limits...



Find a good time when you are both not stressed out or tired, have enough time , no kids or family members around, and tell him you would like to talk to him now.



Tell him what you have found, all details, don't spare nothing! Don't accuse, just name them one by one. The purpose of the talk is to heal the relationship , not fight!



Tell him how you feel about it and what it caused you, that you feel cheated, not secured, can't trust him and so on.

Ask him for the reasons for his acts? Ho owe you that!



Then it is time for the limits! Ask him to end it immediately! Terminate all outside playing, on and off line. Say it as a no way to change it. He needs to end it . End of story!



Tell him that if he loves you and want you to be with him longer than 1 week more, than he needs to follow your guide lines and rules now because apparently he did not manage to do it by himself correctly!



He can't just go with the flow, as he likes it. He needs to follow some rules , like all of us. A relationship is something we build based on trust and other compounds as well.



He broke some of them and now needs to fix it. It is going to be hard, but sometimes people make mistakes and fix them, we are all human. Give him the chnace to change it and fix it.



If he makes it and fix it to your satisfaction, then you will have a good relationship for the future as well. If he does not , then if I were you I would leave him!



Hope things will be better soon.
get him in the bathtub and threaten to throw a plug into the bathtub until he stops.
I think you have to talk to him about it and try to know what he gains or like about those things so that you find a way of doing it for him instead of cheating on you
First you watch his body, don't fall for the head fakes. Then you put your head into his chest and wrap your arms around him. Make sure you drive your legs or he will run right over you. Once he is down on the ground point at him and call him a wimp, then do some kind of celebratory dance. Good luck
drop kick
I find your answer pleasantly stupid. File for divorce now. Do everyone a favor and grow up emotionally before you fall back in lust.
Hi U r the wife and have every right to know about him. Speak out directly and watch his reaction. Dont think I am supporting him or so, but be practical. Some male has got a flavour of erotic chat (if it is notmore than that , u can bear it). Be open minded. Ask your self how many times u have shown interest in sex with him. How many times you expressed ur happiness about the sex? There is an error in ur attitude too. U have mentioned that u have started living with your hubby recently. Where u were all along? Indian women thinks that they have no right to express their sexual happiness with their husbands. Talk and explore the happiness from him. U first find it out where u r lagging and what he is expecting form you. Give and take my dear friend. If he is a chatter no harm , nothing lost. U can bring him back in order. IF NOT kick him out leagally. Because U r a responsible wife and got every right to do so.
Check ';return to sender'; on the mail order bride envelope.
Talk to him about this and get it closed.
online or in person it is still cheating! you are the only one that can decide what to do. are you going to put up with it and go on with your life as if nothing happened? if you are going to leave make copies of his online chats for court.

ADD: if he is cheating on you it is his problem with himself and it has nothing to do with him lacking in his relationship with you! men/women cheat and it would not matter if they had sex with you every night! a cheater is just that a cheater!
Take out the legs.
He is lacking something from your relationship that he can get online from these girls (sluts).

Join him!

Make it a joint venture online and if it pans out...invite one of the girls over.

Now wait a minute... Hear me out.

Make it clear that the only sex he will get is with you being there and no secrets.

But whats good for the gander is just as good for the goose.

Share and share alike.
go for the kidney.
rugby tackle, then beat him with one of those newfangled shoe things you women are so keen on