18 month relationship just ended, how long would you leave it before............?

You started flirting, chatting and meeting people again?



Split up with my BF last week and found out he is already meeting another girl tomorrow.



He keeps texting me asking if i am meeting guys and stuff since we split but failed to mention he has been chatting girls up on Facebook



Would you be upset/angry if you were in this situation?



Thanks in advance to all that answer x18 month relationship just ended, how long would you leave it before............?
I would be if he was checking up on me but he was already meeting up with someone girl go on and do your thing i always heard the way to get over a guy is to get under a new one lol18 month relationship just ended, how long would you leave it before............?
well if hes moving on then go ahead and let him..im sure it would bother most people
Immediately if you want to. He is a seprate person from you now, it shouldn't matter
Either that is his way of coping with the loss or he never cared about you. Nobody can move on that fast without one of those reasons proving true.
if it bothers you that he is doing this, ignore those texts...

thats what i do, and i only answer texts when they have to do with something other than his new gf or w/e



it all depends on when you are ready to date again....sometimes people just want a rebound, which is probably what he is doing....so dont feel bad if you just arent up for that kinda thing
do it when ever your ready and feel good about yourself
That varies from person to person. I would have to be over him and ready to move on first.

What's to be angry about you are split so he is free to chat up other girls. If he is texting and asking you about meeting other guys it sounds like he isn't over you yet.
Don't go off what he is doing, he no longers matters.



I wouldn't talk to him. I would ignore his calls and texts so you can be free of him and focus on you, your needs, and your future.



The general ';dating detox'; rule is about 30 days per year. It gives you times to let them go completely and to figure out what you really want. So you should probably try to do your own thing for about a month. Find yourself again, figure out what you want in life and in your next relationship, build up yourself as an individual again. It will make you much more attractive to other man when you get back into dating.



Don't let him hold you back with his texts or his';new girls';. Nothing about him matters anymore. He let you go - his loss. Move on.



Good luck!
I might be upset! But, you guys are not together so he can do as he please! and so can you! and he is asking you all these question because to fell better about himself because he is seeing other girls! and it is none of his business, unless you tell him, So good luck
Depends on why you split up, if you split up with him you have no right to be upset, angry or hurt that he is moving on quickly. However if he split up with you, I'd expect you to be hurt, angry and confused but everyone moves on at their own pace and you can't hold it against him, just ignore him and move on with your life
no y would you, yall not together no more.
I don't know how guys manage to move on quickly. Anyway you need to move on yourself and try to cut any kind of Communication with him.

Don't give sh** to him

Good Luck
Hmm about 12 hours, got dumped was in bed with another girl less than 12 hours later. I was angry at being dumped, hurt nose put out of joint. But as soon as she decided to dump me i was already back out on the sniff. An ex is an ex no point hankering after them or thinking about them. I went one further, i took a pic of us in the motions and posted it (with her permission of course and our faces blanked out) onto an amateur website and emailed the link to the ex. Then i deleted my email address and changed my mobile sim card.
Of course I would be upset! But you just have to fix things with YOUR heart... then go out, start flirting, and meeting people.