What should i do?myboyfriendwas chatting girls behind my back?

i was in a distance relationship till now that we r at the same place, i found that from time to time he was chatting. i m thinking of dumping him how could he be in love with me and chat others? he said he was bored that he was alone. he said many males chat out of curiosity. he also said that he is sorry and he feels ashamed and embarrassed.What should i do?myboyfriendwas chatting girls behind my back?
If he were doing this and you two were in proximity to one another and seeing each other all the time then I would say dump him. Considering you two were long distance during that time, it may very well have been harmless. People do get lonely and bored and need companionship from time to time. I would look past it this time. Maybe lay some ground rules. Let him know where you stand on this issue and that the next time would be a deal breaker.What should i do?myboyfriendwas chatting girls behind my back?
I don't see why talking to other girls is SOOOOOO BAD! There are 6 billion people. Are you saying he can only talk to ONE FEMALE?
Chatting to other girls when he had a long distance relationship with you is not much of an offence. If he is doing a lot of it while he is in the same town with you, it could be that he is bored with you and wants something new. But if he was doing it when you guys were away from each other, it is nothing, look at it like a hobby to pass time.
He really does feel ashamed %26amp; embarrassed. But this may be some kind of addiction. You said something like it was a distance relationship? was it through chatting ??? if so that could be a another reason why because he's been doing it all the time. Now its hard to stop. If your willing to weather the storm its entirely up to you. But, if not think about it %26amp; maybe this relationship may not be worth your time.
He needs to go girl. If he is chatting with other girls behind your back, then he really doesn't care enough about you to be with you. Long distance relationships never work. If he's so in love with you he wouldn't need to be talking to other girls while he is with you. He says hes ashamed of it, but he really isn't. After talking to others behind the others back the first time its going to keep going on. He's looking for something better. It could be that he's bored with the relationship. Do something to spice up the relationship if you choose to stay with him. Make little changes here and there. You can do better. He doesn't respect you at all. A guy that has respect for the person he is with doesn't go sneaking around,can talk to you about anything,honesty, loving, caring. It will never stop once they start. Remember that.
Unless 'chat' is slang for 'make out vigorously and then have sex with', you're insane.

Men get online and pretend to be girls sometimes. Others roleplay being robots. Others search how to make bombs.

This doesn't make them trans-gendered, Optimus Prime, or a terrorist.

Get jealous over REAL HUMANS with REAL FLESH. Unless he goes out and drives to any city the girls are in, calm down. They're probably 40-year-old men.

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