How can I be more TALKATIVE around girls?

I mean, when I chat with them ONLINE or by TEXTING, I'm really good at talking to them %26amp; making them laugh. HOWEVER, when I talk to girls face-to-face, I can't come up with ANYTHING to talk about with them! It's also true for guys - I'm not really talkative with my guy friends either...

So, the question is: how can I transfer the talkativeness I have when I chat with girls ONLINE to when I meet them face-to-face?How can I be more TALKATIVE around girls?
I have the same issue as you do. I sometimes find it really hard to talk to certain people and I don't like awkwardness. But what you HAVE to do (as hard as it may be) is face your fears. Maybe start off asking them how their Christmas was and what they did, what gifts they got or something like that and usually the conversation will go somewhere but if it does work at least you made the attempt. You don't have to be super talkative right away. Just take baby steps. A little bit at a time until you feel more comfortable. I hope it works out!How can I be more TALKATIVE around girls?
imagine ur talking to a guy friend.
start drinking
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just imagen that they are a really big cell fone
Just be open and if the girl wants to talk to you, she will.
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i have the same problem but tht just means tht you r a lil shy around them
Get drunk and let the word filter you were born with that imprisons dumb things to say go free. Speak your mind out Get some booooooooooze
Talking online is way easier because you have more time to think. Just relax around people don't talk if you are going to come of like a mumbling idiot. Just be more confident ask questions and be intrested in peoples lives.
just picture them as family, that should be enough..
Just talk more. Find anything to talk about. Plan what your gunna talk about. Relax. They're just girls. They're just as nervous around you.
try to talk about a topic that relates to you,and the person youre talking to. pick a comfortable topic that could lead to a long conversation. be yourself! just joke around,and be happy and positive.
You ovbiously have so much to show, to share with others your just holding back for some reason. That reason would be self esteem. The day you start really believing in yourself and accepting yourself for who you are will be the day you would be able to show everyone who you really are.
walk up to them tell them you know they are dying to talk to you, but you are too busy. and walk away...lol
it's all about the type of girls you're trying to talk to and common interests. I easily talk to guys because I have interests in video games and cars
one thing i find that is when you have things in common with a person, it makes the conversations easier and it also helps with transitions from one topic to another when maintaining a conversation. i have the same problem with being in one-on-one conversations with certain people. it helps to be open-minded also, because i know i have a lot in common with different people. i am sure it could be the same for you too =)
What i always do to boost my confidence (i know its wierd) i just remind myself that nobody cares.. they wont remember it.. its just a conversation.. and your probably not going to see them again in 10 years. Also i always tell myself that we are all going to die someday so who gives a ****!
i have same problem, although once i get to know a girl, i can talk more easy with them, me and you are just shy. I bet all the 'out going' guys are getting gf ect. Just be your self, try to be more social,
this is an easily solved equation that doesnt have much to it. All you have to do is stop being such an deeldo and watch When Harry Met Sally 6 TIMES WITHOUT STOPPING. this step is pivotal for your social success. drink more appletinis and quote ';When Harry Met Sally as much as you can, whether it be practicing on your own, on publictransportationn and especially when around your male friends :] as for getting more chicks and self confidence try a nipple pircing
wait till there's something clever to say then say it aloud.
You sound as though you might be a little shy when it comes to face to face interaction. Of course, there's nothing wrong with being shy, but if you want to change that about yourself, then you've got to establish a substantial level of comfort. Many people find it much easier to converse and be themselves when there is some degree of separation, like a computer, or through text messaging. Those forms of communications take away much of the pressure of face to face interaction. What you must do to change is, establish the same level of comfort that you feel when you are online or text messaging in the face to face interaction setting. It is not something that you just do over night. It is a gradual process of opening up, and building up the confindence needed to just be yourself and not hold back. If you are good at talking to people and making them laugh online, but find it difficult to do face to face, then it is because you are holding back. Don't be so reserved. Allow people to enjoy the gift of your thoughts and feelings. You wouldn't want them to miss out on the great person who you really are... would you? Give the gift of yourself more generously.
if your that shy just bring a friend and talk with him and the girls. first it makes its seem like you have a lot of friends and you also can talk more naturally. that's what i do around guys. also talk about things you can relate to if they like sports talk about that, if they talk about makeup change the subject to vacation or something like that.
Most people like to talk about themselves. It's not an arrogance problem; it's just that they know most about what's going on in their lives. The point is maybe listen first, and learn what topics she has input on. Try not to allow awkward silences to grow. Just move on to a fun, debatable, exciting, strange, etc. event, but do so smoothly.

Also, think about what you do when you talk to people online or texting. Why do you do that well? Apply what you do to face-to-face situations.



Some different advice/criticism... you may just be a lousy public speaker. I know when you're in face to face conversations it's not in front of a large audience most of the time, but the situation is still you trying to impress an audience. People tend to act differently when all eyes are on them even if it's just one set of eyes. (There's still that feeling of being judged, and some people blank out, which seems to be your case.) Well... then practice makes perfect, or just know some current events or some fun topics (anything you yourself know about- what do you talk about to people online? Talk.).
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3. Profit!