im 20 been with the same girl for 5 years i thought she was the one but a month ago i found out she been cheating on me and we broke up........i think im ready to started dating again but i have no idea how to go about it iv never had to chat girls up in clubs before....How to get my confidence back with girls?
Not to plug any particular website, but I met my girlfriend of almost 2 years now on MySpace. To be honest, clubs are more or less a meat market and really serve as the best place to stage a one-night stand (ONS). So, my advice to you, is look where other people look for love - school, work, church, etc. It's always when you're least expecting, and it's almost always gonna take you by surprise. So keep an open mind and keep those eyes sharp! But if it's the ol ONS you're looking for, then my friend... throw on a nice button shirt, dress pants and shower in AXE bodyspray and join the rest of the cattle at the meat market on a Friday or Saturday night.
As far as your confidence goes, don't let this hiccup in your love life keep you down. Try to move on without bottling up any doubts or anger. It's best to learn from any situation and then not allow the same mistake to happen again. Obviously, you're not that bad of a guy; you had a girl with you for 5 years, I'm sure another one will follow. Just be yourself and play sharp. You'll be fine. Best of luck to you.How to get my confidence back with girls?
You have to be yourself. Nothing can outbeat that. Let them know what your interests are, what you do for a living, but don't sound all macho macho man! Be yourself! Good luck!
a dont think that your over it in a month. but just be yourself and talk to her as if she was just a good friend be comfortable
Just be yourself,you will find the right girl or girls. You are still very young,I think you were to young to have spent 5 years with one person.You need to get out and meet different people.Don't be in a hurry to get into a serious relationship again,you have plenty of time.
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