How to talk / chat a girl up in a Club / Party etc?

Hi Everyone,



I would like to know how to chat a girl up at a party/club etc. A lot of times, I see nice girls at parties, clubs etc, but I keep asking myself, how do I chat them up and what can I say to keep up a conversation.



I can get on well with people naturally once we can get a conversation started, but in parties/clubs etc, I ask myself, what do I say to the girl ???



Also, I prefer talking to a girl, a quick not too lengthy conversation because of the noise of the music systems, then exchange contact numbers.



I see a lot of other guys chatting girls up, and I wonder what exactly do they actually say, I know that if a girl fancies a guy it makes the task easier, but for some girls, a guy needs to go a extra mile, my problem is that I am a lovable person, but that檚 only if a girl knows me, and problem is getting them to know me, this isn檛 possible in a club i.e in that short space of time, but rather when we get to speak and know each other.



Please advice.How to talk / chat a girl up in a Club / Party etc?
I think you have been talking too much in a club. Pulling in clubs/bars is all the eyes i.e. eye contact. Fix eyes with the girl you like if she looks back and smiles a bit, either then or a while later when you are on the dance floor go over to her and see if she wants to dance with you, if she moves closer to you, your in, if she doesn't or turns away back off and find another target.



Girls don'y like chessy chat up lines they either like you or they don't and they like action rather than bollocks boring chat. Do the eye contact and dance thing and just be nice and not to pervey, just ask there name and what they do, what they like to drink, do they like the music, no bollocks no tricks, just show a interest in her and complement her e.g. her eyes, hair, dress etc girls love complements just stick a few in during mid conversation therefore even if you are chatting rubbish she will still think you a nice pull



Also very important, drink but don't get drunk, you still need to be in control of your body and making sure you look good and am having a good time



Also don't be scared if you get knocked back so what, her loss, forget about it move on, wait a while and then look for another target! lolHow to talk / chat a girl up in a Club / Party etc?
NO CHAT UP LINES THEY ARE FOR THE WEAK MINDED!



DON'T GET DRUNK!



A lot of girls don't like chat up lines...but talking to them works every time. Just relax say Hi, saw you standing on your own, Im...bob....hey, like your dress, something daft like that. I haven't had much trouble but do prepared to get knocked back..girls do to!!..good luck friend...there is someone out there for everyone..
Just be yourself... try get close to her (do this subtly - like at the bar) %26amp; comment on something funny that it happening in the place. Don't be cheesy. If the spark's there you'll know and conversation will flow naturally.
If there was a simple answer to that one I think we'd all like to hear it.



I've no doubt you will get plenty of advice about chat up lines, being relaxed and staying sober etc but none of them will work unless you've got the confidence to start talking to a girl without getting tongue tied and clubs are not terribly good for practising in because there are too many people able to chat up the birds at the drop of a hat.



You could try one or other of the dating agencies where at least you know people are looking for friends. If nothing else it will give you a bit of experience.
hey m8



The first thing is ..........dnt ever go for chat up lines..........



Wen u go in a club........ mk an eye contact with a gal......... actually to put in bettr words........... fix ur target...... n keep lookng at her ...... she will hopefully look at u n smile n then go n tlk like...... hi im bob......... n jst saw u so i thought y not tlk to u



n then jst carry on smoooth conversation.. but yh dnt b cheesy.......

see if its a club......... gals will b approachd bu guys....... n gals also like to hv some fun......... but wat they do is tht they try to ignore u sometimes jst to check thtt wud he come bk to me.........

but u hv to keep lookng at her

if possible rite in the eyes



n while u r tlkng mk the eye contact%26lt; eyes say many thngs tht we cnt say%26gt;

...............then while u r tlkng sometimes try to tk the piss out of them

jst casually

mk them look dum in front of u ......... the possibility is %26lt; if she is rly hot%26gt; she will fall for u ........ but u hv t do things tht r unexpectd by a gal



cz gals know tht guys will say hey u r btful n all tht

so u hv to stand out of the crowd,......... u hv to leave an impression tht u r diffrnt from others............u honour urself......... n u cnt b a gals *****............



but while u r cocky n fnny n tkng the piss out of them n sometimes others............ do compliment them on small thngs........ but b careful dnt b too cheesy.......



the frst step is always the eye contact

n the later bit is for some quieter places



tk cr m8

n hopefully u will b a huge success soon



Dr. Love
just go up to her and say ';hi do you fancy a dance'; If she replies yes then say good go on then and i can have your stool